Does someone have any good advice about off & on relationships.?

Each relationship is different but I think that in most cases like that either both or one of you are not really sure of what you want or what you are looking for in a relationship. Ask yourself what you want and need and if the other person fills that need, if not then more on and the person that does.


Timing is important too, you might be with the right person at the wrong time. These are the relationships that hurt so much to leave.Does someone have any good advice about off %26amp; on relationships.?
Yes, they don't work. Somesone always gets hurt in the end.Does someone have any good advice about off %26amp; on relationships.?
Date other people more than this person, who's off %26amp; on again. Make less time for them to effect you.
They suck. They only end up hurting you and are a waste of time.
relationship is like a journey. there will be ups and downs in it. if you overcome the downs that's why you're getting back together, and this is a good sign. if it's really down, down and can't get over it then that's the end of it.
The main question you should ask is this:





Why is the relationship on and off? Is it because the both of you become scared in the face of commitment? Is it because you grow tired of each other, only to decide to give it another go? Is it because you choose to see other people?





Whatever the reason, it needs to be pinpointed fast.





Think of turning a light bulb on and off over and over again; eventually it will burn out.





If you are going to be together and try to make a meaningful relationship together, remember that building a house and tearing it down again will never give you a place to live.
in an off and on relationship its best tht u can handle it. its also best tht u ain't a flirt
quit them all together. get one that works well for both of you so that you can be happy.
The thing about on and off casual relationships is that you need to keep your emotions out of the equation. If you have feeling for this person - walk, if it is more about great sex and companionship and you have a tight reign on your emotions, if your both clear about what is offered on the table stay and have fun!
Yeah,


move on.
I'm sure that a lot of people do, but you have to ask the question first.
FROM FIRSTHAND EXPERIENCE: it will never be even 75% on, so save yourself time and stress, get out before it's too late! Find someone who you mesh well with and you will be so much happier in the long run (again coming from personal experience). I took me four years, two children, and a divorce to realize this on my own; please let my mistakes help you! RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!! good luck. =)
ya need to decide if ya really want to be together and keep it on and if not then go yas separate ways
THEY JUST CAUSE A LOT OF HEARTACHE AND ANGER LATER ON.
you should never be used to this kind of situation. if you really love the person then go ahead and settle your differences. on and off relationships just makes the two persons used to leaving whenever they want to and not willing to sacrifice for each other. they'll just think..i can get away with this by breaking up with her/him then would realize that he/she still loves him/her then when there's a problem there it goes again. both of you should learn to patch things up by talking and not run away by breaking up.
You got to learn and try to understaand him..You might feel that inside that you are a quite person,buyt the way you talk to him bit by bit and the way you talk to him. He may feel that way...





Your both have to sit donw 1 daay and talk about the way your feel towards each other and learn and try to work things out. If not they might become worst for the both og you, really.





I advice that your must learn to feel for each other, Learn to understand each other. Then things will work out just fine for both of you.





Then You got to Find it he.she your true love.?





What is true love?








True love? or a lustful kind of love? There is a difference.





True love? The world stops around you when you look into the eyes of the one you love. No one else, nothing else seems important, but the connection that is you share with this person. And you can feel it in thier eyes. As if when they stare back into yours, that they are saying without speaking, ';I adore you, respect you, desire you, admire you';. True love is when you connect on a level that makes you want to do everything you can to make that person happy, and that they do the same in return. It is a powerful feeling, when the world stops around the two of you. You will know it.





Lustful kind of love is much different. Its the feeling that omg I have to have that person, they are so very attractive, and that I think I am in love with them. Its a false true love.





You will feel love for him in time.


That love is connection.,YOu can tell him by passing him notes.or leaving him a message.! take it slowly my friend.do that if you are shy.talk to him ,call him,,,relate your feelings towards him.he will start to understand and like you.





remember





Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
yup time to go find someone new yup yup yup
yeah eventually you will have to say that's enough..I have been in an off and on relationship.. the last time we broke up i told him i was done and that i was going to start dating other people..he was very upset but i meant it...i dated a few people nothing serious but i loved him and he still loved me we talked things out and we have been together since...this may not work for everyone but it did for me..
Maybe you two should ask yourselves, not What are we doing?, but What are we AVOIDING?
you need to think where you want this relationship to lead to in the future, if you don't want it to go far, i would just end it and be friends with the other person in the relationship
they don't last..
a guy and i were like that one time, he ended up breaking my heart. so the best advice would be to dump him b/c hes gonna dump you in the long run.
I think you 2 should sit down and talk things between each other and see how things go. If not maybe you and that person don't need to be together.
The only advice I can give is take each break up and connection and view it thoroughly. Because its obvious that neither one of you are getting the right thing out of your relationship exp. Or you both are too scared to move on too another relationship out of fear that you will not be accepted.