Thursday, July 29, 2010

I need some advice about roommate issues?

My roommate used to be a good friend, but all of a sudden she started labeling her food (we used to buy and prepare all of our groceries together and share everything) and she even put a lock on her door, which she locks whenever she leaves! I didn't do anything to make her not trust me. She even removed me from her MySpace friends! She hasn't said a thing to me about anything. Should I give up and move out? Any idea what would make someone act like this?I need some advice about roommate issues?
MOVE OUT! OR KICK HER OUT...I need some advice about roommate issues?
Ask her why she's acting this way when you have given her no reason not to trust you. She may have a simple answer, but I believe you should calmly confront her because some of this is rude (things she's doing to you)
i don't find it strange despite being strange thing to others. my friend has ditched me too but in other ways. in your situation try to learn why your friend did that. be persistent to know the reason. if it's your fault then apologise if not give yourself more time when worse situation tries to come your way. that time you can ignore her completely and forever.
there could be two strong reasons. she either doesn't trust you or maybe she have something to hide. as a roommate you have a right to ask why she is locking her room and labeling everything.


then go from there. if you are still not comfortable than you may want to leave. if you have a lease agreement than you will have to wait until it expires.
I think the one you need to ask about this is HER! If she can't or won't give you a reasonable intelligent answer, then you best ask her to get away from you -
This sounds like drastic action considering you say that you have done NOTHING, but if this is the case then perhaps some one else has been whispering poison words in her ear. you really need to talk to her to find out what is going on, if she refuses to communicate with you then look for alternative accommodation but do it carefully and don't be rushed into going some where just to get away.
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