my boyfriend and i have an active sex life. but it seems the same routine everytime. him on top, me on the bottom. and ususally i have a hard time getting him in the mood. but i have a few insecurities about trying new things, and worrying about messing it up. how can i get over my insecurities, and spice up our sex life, leaving him craving more? and what techniques can i use to put him in the mood?HELP! i need advice about my boyfriend!?
LIKE ME AND MY HOT SEXY MEXICAN MAN ALL I DO IS WEAR SOME SEXY THONGS AND BRAS THAT PUSH MY BREAST UP AND HE LOVES IT. SO BASICLY WEAR SOME SEXY CLOTHES FROM VICTORIA SECRETHELP! i need advice about my boyfriend!?
kamasutra..............
Read Cosmo religiously
alot of young women have this fear when they are with a new partner or thier first partner. what you have to tell yourself is that your boyfriends isnt judging you or your body. He is enjoying it. Men dont really think about things like how we look or stuff like that, thier just happy to be having sex usually. why dont you try having sex in a different room? try a new postion, i promise you it will feel amazing and hell get in the mood. Why dont you just talk to him about his also, i mean come on your having sex with him, talking about it should be a piece of cake. If you do new things hell want you more. you should try being on top. It feels amazing to have all that control, and hell enjoy the veiw. have fun!
Monday, August 23, 2010
I need some advice about a girl?
ok i just started liking this girl who goes to my church, she is a senior, really awesome, we always sit together and talk, joke and what not... (her father died about a year ago) i dk if she might like me or not..., and even if she does should i ask her out and how would i go about asking her out without making it really awkward...
PLEASE HELP!!!I need some advice about a girl?
OK, so you have her as a friend now? perfect. All you have to do is ask her out. Say something like this, ';Hey (put name here) i heard (put name of movie here) was alright, wanna catch it with me?'; She will know it's a date (since she is a senior in high school). Best of luck.I need some advice about a girl?
if your good friends don't ruin that unless your 100% sure by asking her out it'll make things very awkward again
ask her out! if she is already a friend then its perfect!
Try flirting with her and see how she responds.
the second person i agree with!this works
PLEASE HELP!!!I need some advice about a girl?
OK, so you have her as a friend now? perfect. All you have to do is ask her out. Say something like this, ';Hey (put name here) i heard (put name of movie here) was alright, wanna catch it with me?'; She will know it's a date (since she is a senior in high school). Best of luck.I need some advice about a girl?
if your good friends don't ruin that unless your 100% sure by asking her out it'll make things very awkward again
ask her out! if she is already a friend then its perfect!
Try flirting with her and see how she responds.
the second person i agree with!
26 and never had a boyfriend, some advice about my situation?
So here the low down. Im 26 never had a boyfriend. Really like this guy from church. I asked him out for coffee he said yes but then he's been away and so have I. We finally reconnected today. I asked him what he was up to this week and he said did u still wanna go out for coffee? I said Yes! He said how about we hook up friday for coffee. But like i said before I am so new at this so am i getting the signal right that he is interested? What is some good things for us to talk about over coffee? If things go well do i wait for him to ask me out or would i be stupid to ask him again? (He's really shy and new to this also) Any advice for me would be appreciated. Thanks in advance for your replys.26 and never had a boyfriend, some advice about my situation?
Sounds like he's interested...so go out and have fun. Don't be so nervous that you make him nervous. lol. Just have fun, laugh, talk, and enjoy each other's company. Everything will be fine. Trust yourself.26 and never had a boyfriend, some advice about my situation?
have you had male friends that you have done things with? cause 26 and no boyfriend, did you not go threw all the normal teenage experiences of dating? cause if your trying to start dating at 26...you have alot of catching up to you.....
and it seems like hes interested if he brought up the coffee again. and you could talk about anything you want....try to lean more towards relationship stuff. and if you like him, ask him out, definatly if hes shy. . all you can get is a no...and if it is no, then you can move on.
Congrats on making the first step! I would say talk about likes dislikes...things you enjoy doing, ask about things in his life...make sure you are letting him know you are listening to him, make sure conversation is equal 50 you/50 him. I wouldn't give your whole life story...towards the end if you feel comfortable and he seems comfortable, you can give him a small hug like a friend kinda hug and say, ';I had a great time, I hope we can get together again sometime, you have my number call me.'; Leave it at that. If he is interested he will call...or if he is really shy and you know he won't call and you are feeling bold you could end by saying, '; I had a great time with you, if you would like to go out again, call me and we can discuss what day works best.'; If he doesn't call he may not be ready for a relationship, you have to let him make a move, you can let him know what you want but then it is his move. Good luck! Hope this helps!
I personally would let the guy do the talking...and you could also talk about things you are interested in and like your current situation (where you go to school, work, about Paris Hilton?, about the news? )This is the get to know the guy part so to see if you guys have anything in common. I hope this will help you...
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Edit: I'm also 23 and never had a serious boyfriend so no, it's not Pathetic!! Three years is nothing if they say age is but a number!!!
judging from the context clues, I can tell that you want God involved with this part of your life. Trust him and you will be fine. Act naturally and think of a handful of topics to talk about. it will flow from there.
if he asked you for a coffee, the bigger chance is he's interested in you too!! baby steps....you go to church togerger, rite? talk about chruchy things first..then there could be movies, music, general stuff!!
advice : just be yourself...
hey, why am i so excited also??
Yes he's interested, but you have to calm down and not put such emphasis on this coffee date. It's a coffee date. Go meet, for coffee, don't make immediate plans afterwards so you can be free if you guys chose to hang out, be interactive. I.E - Don't allow for any alkward lulls in the conversation. Just talk about some common interests (church) and ask him questions and allow him to ask you questions. Get to know each other. Depending on how that goes, then you should get worried and panicky about dating. LOL. I'm kidding. But it's a fun and exciting experience, don't be afraid if it doesn't work out, because you'll have tried. And that's brave.
Sounds like he's interested...so go out and have fun. Don't be so nervous that you make him nervous. lol. Just have fun, laugh, talk, and enjoy each other's company. Everything will be fine. Trust yourself.26 and never had a boyfriend, some advice about my situation?
have you had male friends that you have done things with? cause 26 and no boyfriend, did you not go threw all the normal teenage experiences of dating? cause if your trying to start dating at 26...you have alot of catching up to you.....
and it seems like hes interested if he brought up the coffee again. and you could talk about anything you want....try to lean more towards relationship stuff. and if you like him, ask him out, definatly if hes shy. . all you can get is a no...and if it is no, then you can move on.
Congrats on making the first step! I would say talk about likes dislikes...things you enjoy doing, ask about things in his life...make sure you are letting him know you are listening to him, make sure conversation is equal 50 you/50 him. I wouldn't give your whole life story...towards the end if you feel comfortable and he seems comfortable, you can give him a small hug like a friend kinda hug and say, ';I had a great time, I hope we can get together again sometime, you have my number call me.'; Leave it at that. If he is interested he will call...or if he is really shy and you know he won't call and you are feeling bold you could end by saying, '; I had a great time with you, if you would like to go out again, call me and we can discuss what day works best.'; If he doesn't call he may not be ready for a relationship, you have to let him make a move, you can let him know what you want but then it is his move. Good luck! Hope this helps!
I personally would let the guy do the talking...and you could also talk about things you are interested in and like your current situation (where you go to school, work, about Paris Hilton?, about the news? )This is the get to know the guy part so to see if you guys have anything in common. I hope this will help you...
this link http://www.tableforsix.com/tips.php
Edit: I'm also 23 and never had a serious boyfriend so no, it's not Pathetic!! Three years is nothing if they say age is but a number!!!
judging from the context clues, I can tell that you want God involved with this part of your life. Trust him and you will be fine. Act naturally and think of a handful of topics to talk about. it will flow from there.
if he asked you for a coffee, the bigger chance is he's interested in you too!! baby steps....you go to church togerger, rite? talk about chruchy things first..then there could be movies, music, general stuff!!
advice : just be yourself...
hey, why am i so excited also??
Yes he's interested, but you have to calm down and not put such emphasis on this coffee date. It's a coffee date. Go meet, for coffee, don't make immediate plans afterwards so you can be free if you guys chose to hang out, be interactive. I.E - Don't allow for any alkward lulls in the conversation. Just talk about some common interests (church) and ask him questions and allow him to ask you questions. Get to know each other. Depending on how that goes, then you should get worried and panicky about dating. LOL. I'm kidding. But it's a fun and exciting experience, don't be afraid if it doesn't work out, because you'll have tried. And that's brave.
Where is the sweet girl who needed advice about an abusive situation cause i really want to keep in contact?
IF SOMETHING IS ABUSIVE YOU GOT TO LET IT GO NO MATTER HOW BAD IT HURTS AND KEEPING CONTACT IS NOT A GOOD IDEA.Where is the sweet girl who needed advice about an abusive situation cause i really want to keep in contact?
Do you still have the question that you answered for her before? If so, go back to it and click on her name and find her that wayWhere is the sweet girl who needed advice about an abusive situation cause i really want to keep in contact?
that was me
Do you still have the question that you answered for her before? If so, go back to it and click on her name and find her that wayWhere is the sweet girl who needed advice about an abusive situation cause i really want to keep in contact?
that was me
GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around guys?
This girl on here asked a question about having drunk sex with some guy. I want to know if guys agree with my answer from a male perspective.
Here is the link to her question and my answer (mine is near the bottom)
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around guys?
You did!
The best I've ever freaking read! I think exactly like you do, but have a difficult time to conveying these thoughts through Yahoo Answers. I'm going to take what you said and boomark it.GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around guys?
nope i like it when a girl txts me it shows interest i hate starting that convo i mean im a man but cmon why cant women start the **** if they know you like em also i dont set rules i just go for women i like plz help on my question the links in the source
From my experience guys hate it when women set boundaries so they will say NO you didn't answer it right. They want the booty call with no strings attached. But yes, your answer was right on, from a girls perspective. Reminds me of the Book The Rules.
Here is the link to her question and my answer (mine is near the bottom)
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around guys?
You did!
The best I've ever freaking read! I think exactly like you do, but have a difficult time to conveying these thoughts through Yahoo Answers. I'm going to take what you said and boomark it.GUYS - did I give this girl good advice about how to act around guys?
nope i like it when a girl txts me it shows interest i hate starting that convo i mean im a man but cmon why cant women start the **** if they know you like em also i dont set rules i just go for women i like plz help on my question the links in the source
From my experience guys hate it when women set boundaries so they will say NO you didn't answer it right. They want the booty call with no strings attached. But yes, your answer was right on, from a girls perspective. Reminds me of the Book The Rules.
Please help! I need a lot of advice about this!!!!?
I'm meeting a guy for the first time tomorrow. I'm 18 and he's 24. Don't say anything about the age difference because I think it's acceptable. We are meeting at a lake/park. I'm going after work as a counselor so I know I won't be looking my best which is one reason I'm nervous. I can also be shy and I know he wants someone who is fun. Any advice to get over this? Also how can I make myself seem open to him making a move? Thank you.Please help! I need a lot of advice about this!!!!?
ok
hmm try 2 be more outgoing
tink of an activity u can do at da park
dont b nervous it will just make ur meeting worse nina.
dont fuss too much over how u look
the guy shouldnt judge on appearance
be careful
be sure u know a least alil something bout the guy.Please help! I need a lot of advice about this!!!!?
wow tough situation!!! My advice to you is BE CAREFUL!! the age difference is 6 years and you might not be ready for him. He graduated high school when you graduated middle school. I know it's not what you want to hear, but it's just COMMON SENSE!! and don't be nervous about how you look!! If the guy can't appreciate you when you're not looking you're greatest, then he's not worth it! Be outgoing and be yourself!! be fun and happy and bubbly because that's what most guys like :]]]] remember BE CAREFUL!! and make sure one of you're friends knows about your meeting,,,just in case
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Dont worry about how you look! If he's a good bloke he wont care!
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you could either tell him when you first meet him and say hi and stuff quickly add in 'oh yeah I'm a bit shy I havnt been dating for a bit so sorry if I'm a bit rusty'
or just go with it pretend your talking to your freind or someone who you've known all your life
good luck I hope it goes ok :)
ok
hmm try 2 be more outgoing
tink of an activity u can do at da park
dont b nervous it will just make ur meeting worse nina.
dont fuss too much over how u look
the guy shouldnt judge on appearance
be careful
be sure u know a least alil something bout the guy.Please help! I need a lot of advice about this!!!!?
wow tough situation!!! My advice to you is BE CAREFUL!! the age difference is 6 years and you might not be ready for him. He graduated high school when you graduated middle school. I know it's not what you want to hear, but it's just COMMON SENSE!! and don't be nervous about how you look!! If the guy can't appreciate you when you're not looking you're greatest, then he's not worth it! Be outgoing and be yourself!! be fun and happy and bubbly because that's what most guys like :]]]] remember BE CAREFUL!! and make sure one of you're friends knows about your meeting,,,just in case
First
Dont worry about how you look! If he's a good bloke he wont care!
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you could either tell him when you first meet him and say hi and stuff quickly add in 'oh yeah I'm a bit shy I havnt been dating for a bit so sorry if I'm a bit rusty'
or just go with it pretend your talking to your freind or someone who you've known all your life
good luck I hope it goes ok :)
I need some advice about a legal matter. Please only serious answers only.?
My grandmother fell while working at Wal-mart.. she couldn't get up and the manager made her leave the premises w/o taking any report of the incident. Well the manger had to wheel her out to the car she was unable to walk...they didn't ask her if she needed a ambulance. So she had to go to ER. There they diagnosed her as only having a deep bruise....4 days later in very bad pain I needed to rush her to another ER..finding out she had a fractured pelvis in two places... Is anybody legally responsible for any neglagence... the hospital for not finding the injury at first.. Walmrt for sending her home without seeking medical attention for her??? Any help will be appriciated.I need some advice about a legal matter. Please only serious answers only.?
First, how did she get to the first ER, if she was so badly hurt? At this point, I would say that you do not have a case, UNLESS the second hospital can say with certainty when the injury occurred, which is doubtful. Without a way to show that the broken pelvis occurred at work and not on any of the days in between hospital visits, you have no case. My guess is the first hospital took Xrays which would probably disprove your case. So, I would say that you don't have a case. If the first hospital's Xrays showed she did have a broken pelvis, and it was close enough in time to her leaving Walmart that might help her case. However, unless she suffered a significantly greater injury because she was not treated at the first hospital (which seems not) then she would have no action against the hospital.
If your grandmother had a case it would be for Workman's Compensation against Walmart.I need some advice about a legal matter. Please only serious answers only.?
Manager should have filled out an accident report, Know I think you need to fine a witness you saw what happened. And then go to the manager
her manager should have filed an incident report. you could probably get some specifics from ocea or maybe the store manager.
Wow - Yes it should be under worker's comp. I would get an attorney asap - and make sure that they know the supervisor did nothing to help her.
You might go online and look up stuff OSHA is the name of the place you want to go.
You need to talk to an attorney.
First of all Walmart is responsible for not helping her through this. However i don't think you will be able to get anything more from Walmart than workers compensation. And as for the hospital i don't think that they were at fault because she could have just weakened her pelvis then broke it completely through days later and the hospital cant diagnose what isn't there.
I agree, the manager should have filed an accident report. In addition, does your grandmother have a gaurantee of medical care from Wal-Mart? If so, you can sue Wal-Mart for negligence and for the manager not following standard procedure. You should also file a complaint to the hospital that you went to because if it were worse, I'd say sue. The same thing happened to me. I went to one ER room and the doctor there claimed that I had a severe allergy attack. I didn't buy it, and a week later, I went to a different ER room and diagnosed me with 1000 mg of antibiotic for my kidneys. Now, something is wrong with me, and I have to go to a eurologist. However, if it's not so bad as taking medicine every day or having to have surgery, I won't sue, though I would love to. *Having problems with convincing my family.* In any case, it is both the hospital and the manager's fault.
the company are also responsible forthat %26amp; also the hospital,
if you need more info you can reply on me
In addition to what the others said, your grandmother should be seeking legal help quickly so as to get any CCTV tapes preserved before they can be erased.
This is more than workers' compensation -- this looks like battery by the manager. Wal-Mart's insurer will be all over the case.
Do not accept any settlement without a diagnosis of potential future problems. ';Slip and fall'; cases are a legal specialty.
If she didn't fill out the paperwork she will have a hard time making Wal mart responsible. She needs to talk to someone at the corporate office ASAP!
As far as the ER, I really don't know what you can do about that. I would call a lawyer.
Talk to a lawyer that deals in work place assadent. and Wal mart has vidio survalance. i would have them go for the tape. it will show what happend. and Wal mart will be hers,
Both of them are responsible. Her manager for not reporting it, and the hospital for negligence...
oh yes you find a lawyer and go hard.
Walmart you might get shut up money it will be embarrassing for them, i have no doubt the manager will say your grand mother asked to be taken out.
the first er doesn't have to always right , just not negligent. I would suggest that missing a fractured pelvis will be difficult not admit liability.
go hard , find a lawyer
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I wish you the best of luck.
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OMG! What your grandmother's supervisor did was not only beyond illegal, it was just plain unethical. An employee first has to report the injury to their supervisor, which your grandmother did, because he saw her fall and scooped her up. And why or why????? Why, would this azzhole move an old lady like your grandmother. She should have been stablized and an ambulance called. The fact that her supervisor picked her up and dumped and in a wheelchair and rolled her out of there could have made the injury worse!!! Next, the supervisor should have helped her fill out a Workers' Compensation Accident/Injury Report form. He is next supposed to advise her to seek medical treatment, or like I just mentioned, he should have called an ambulance. Next, her supervisor should have contacted the hospital and told her supervisor that ALL OF HER TREATMENT is to be covered under Workers' Compensation. The supervisor is to insure that the Workers' Compensation Accident/Injury Report form is completed and forwarded to the Wal-Mart Headquarters asap!!! It is also important for him to identify any known witnesses to the accident/injury in case this accident becomes a legal issue. I would have your grandmother contact the head Manager at the particular Wal-Mart that she works at, and discuss the situation. Have her inform them of the forms, because she is not to pay for ANYTHING!!!! If they give her a hard time and start bullsh*tt*ng her, (which they probably will), tell her to inform them that she will be contacting the regional manager of Wal-Mart along with Wal-Mart headquarters, will be seeking an attorney to pursue the matter further, AND tell your grandmother to contact the MEDIA! You know Wal-Mart works their employees long hours, and some stores were called upon by the media for not giving employees a lunch break. There was one in Pennsylvania and Florida that exclusively hired illegal immigrants. Wal-Mart is bad for America. But, they hate negative media attention. They hate to look like the bad guy. Therefore, have your mother contact the media if she doesn't get anywhere with store management. You would be surprised how quickly Wal-Mart headquarters in Benton, AK will bend over backwards to give your grandmother everything she needs and deserves, so this matter will be quickly brushed under the rug! This is why I shop at Target. I hate Wal-Mart. Best wishes to your grandmother for a speedy recovery!
You should contact the state labor department. Workplace injuries should be reported. If your grandmother was working there, she is entitled to collect Workers' Compensation, for the injuries she sustained while working on the premises. You should contact the Worker's Compensation board to report the injury and collect benefits for your grandmother, but also report the actions of the Walmart manager.
The hospital may only be partially responsible if they misdiagnosed your grandmother, but you probably would not get much for only 4 days of pain and suffering. What caused the actually fall? If it was Walmart, this is usually covered under Workers' Comp and not under negligence.
First, how did she get to the first ER, if she was so badly hurt? At this point, I would say that you do not have a case, UNLESS the second hospital can say with certainty when the injury occurred, which is doubtful. Without a way to show that the broken pelvis occurred at work and not on any of the days in between hospital visits, you have no case. My guess is the first hospital took Xrays which would probably disprove your case. So, I would say that you don't have a case. If the first hospital's Xrays showed she did have a broken pelvis, and it was close enough in time to her leaving Walmart that might help her case. However, unless she suffered a significantly greater injury because she was not treated at the first hospital (which seems not) then she would have no action against the hospital.
If your grandmother had a case it would be for Workman's Compensation against Walmart.I need some advice about a legal matter. Please only serious answers only.?
Manager should have filled out an accident report, Know I think you need to fine a witness you saw what happened. And then go to the manager
her manager should have filed an incident report. you could probably get some specifics from ocea or maybe the store manager.
Wow - Yes it should be under worker's comp. I would get an attorney asap - and make sure that they know the supervisor did nothing to help her.
You might go online and look up stuff OSHA is the name of the place you want to go.
You need to talk to an attorney.
First of all Walmart is responsible for not helping her through this. However i don't think you will be able to get anything more from Walmart than workers compensation. And as for the hospital i don't think that they were at fault because she could have just weakened her pelvis then broke it completely through days later and the hospital cant diagnose what isn't there.
I agree, the manager should have filed an accident report. In addition, does your grandmother have a gaurantee of medical care from Wal-Mart? If so, you can sue Wal-Mart for negligence and for the manager not following standard procedure. You should also file a complaint to the hospital that you went to because if it were worse, I'd say sue. The same thing happened to me. I went to one ER room and the doctor there claimed that I had a severe allergy attack. I didn't buy it, and a week later, I went to a different ER room and diagnosed me with 1000 mg of antibiotic for my kidneys. Now, something is wrong with me, and I have to go to a eurologist. However, if it's not so bad as taking medicine every day or having to have surgery, I won't sue, though I would love to. *Having problems with convincing my family.* In any case, it is both the hospital and the manager's fault.
the company are also responsible forthat %26amp; also the hospital,
if you need more info you can reply on me
In addition to what the others said, your grandmother should be seeking legal help quickly so as to get any CCTV tapes preserved before they can be erased.
This is more than workers' compensation -- this looks like battery by the manager. Wal-Mart's insurer will be all over the case.
Do not accept any settlement without a diagnosis of potential future problems. ';Slip and fall'; cases are a legal specialty.
If she didn't fill out the paperwork she will have a hard time making Wal mart responsible. She needs to talk to someone at the corporate office ASAP!
As far as the ER, I really don't know what you can do about that. I would call a lawyer.
Talk to a lawyer that deals in work place assadent. and Wal mart has vidio survalance. i would have them go for the tape. it will show what happend. and Wal mart will be hers,
Both of them are responsible. Her manager for not reporting it, and the hospital for negligence...
oh yes you find a lawyer and go hard.
Walmart you might get shut up money it will be embarrassing for them, i have no doubt the manager will say your grand mother asked to be taken out.
the first er doesn't have to always right , just not negligent. I would suggest that missing a fractured pelvis will be difficult not admit liability.
go hard , find a lawyer
My advice is to speak to a lawyer and the best, most inexpensive way to do this is through Pre-Paid Legal Services. For more information visit the website below, and feel free to contact me through that site if you have further questions on how this service may be able to help you. I encourage you to find out what your rights and options are in this situation.
I wish you the best of luck.
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OMG! What your grandmother's supervisor did was not only beyond illegal, it was just plain unethical. An employee first has to report the injury to their supervisor, which your grandmother did, because he saw her fall and scooped her up. And why or why????? Why, would this azzhole move an old lady like your grandmother. She should have been stablized and an ambulance called. The fact that her supervisor picked her up and dumped and in a wheelchair and rolled her out of there could have made the injury worse!!! Next, the supervisor should have helped her fill out a Workers' Compensation Accident/Injury Report form. He is next supposed to advise her to seek medical treatment, or like I just mentioned, he should have called an ambulance. Next, her supervisor should have contacted the hospital and told her supervisor that ALL OF HER TREATMENT is to be covered under Workers' Compensation. The supervisor is to insure that the Workers' Compensation Accident/Injury Report form is completed and forwarded to the Wal-Mart Headquarters asap!!! It is also important for him to identify any known witnesses to the accident/injury in case this accident becomes a legal issue. I would have your grandmother contact the head Manager at the particular Wal-Mart that she works at, and discuss the situation. Have her inform them of the forms, because she is not to pay for ANYTHING!!!! If they give her a hard time and start bullsh*tt*ng her, (which they probably will), tell her to inform them that she will be contacting the regional manager of Wal-Mart along with Wal-Mart headquarters, will be seeking an attorney to pursue the matter further, AND tell your grandmother to contact the MEDIA! You know Wal-Mart works their employees long hours, and some stores were called upon by the media for not giving employees a lunch break. There was one in Pennsylvania and Florida that exclusively hired illegal immigrants. Wal-Mart is bad for America. But, they hate negative media attention. They hate to look like the bad guy. Therefore, have your mother contact the media if she doesn't get anywhere with store management. You would be surprised how quickly Wal-Mart headquarters in Benton, AK will bend over backwards to give your grandmother everything she needs and deserves, so this matter will be quickly brushed under the rug! This is why I shop at Target. I hate Wal-Mart. Best wishes to your grandmother for a speedy recovery!
You should contact the state labor department. Workplace injuries should be reported. If your grandmother was working there, she is entitled to collect Workers' Compensation, for the injuries she sustained while working on the premises. You should contact the Worker's Compensation board to report the injury and collect benefits for your grandmother, but also report the actions of the Walmart manager.
The hospital may only be partially responsible if they misdiagnosed your grandmother, but you probably would not get much for only 4 days of pain and suffering. What caused the actually fall? If it was Walmart, this is usually covered under Workers' Comp and not under negligence.
I need advice about a sexual issue?
Last night i had unprotected sex with my girlfriend, she takes the pill but is currently off it as she is having her period, she is currently on her 5th day of her period and i am very confused as to what the consequences are right now.... is it possible for her to get pregnant while having her period as we went to the pharmacy this morning to get the morning after pill and the pharmacist said that it was not neccesary any advice will be helpfull thank youI need advice about a sexual issue?
Chance of her getting pregnant is very low .. i do not think Morning After pill is required ..I need advice about a sexual issue?
It really isn't necessary for you to be so worried. You only need to be worried if she knows for sure that she hadn't been taking the pill correctly in the last week before she began her period. If she took the pill correctly, it would mean she would not have ovulated, and therefore cannot get pregnant. If she takes the pill correctly, then she wil protected against pregnancy, even during the break while she is on her period. You need to read up on the pill. You can't have her rush off to the pharmacy every time you decide to freak out to try and get the morning after pill. The morning after pill is very harsh, and should only be used in emergency situations. There is no need for the morning after pill, stop stressing and educate yourself about the contraceptive pill.
The pharmacist was right. Most birth control pills are taken 21 days, and a week off in which the woman usually gets her period (many pills have a placebo or sugar pill that is taken that week so the woman stays in the habit of taking her daily pill). If she's been on the pill at least a month total, and takes them without fail as she should, then she's protected by the pill (from pregnancy) all the time, even during the 7 day break that she has her period. The risk is no higher during those 7 days than any of the other 21 days she's taking the pill...
While the pill is only about 99% effective, it's that effective all the time a woman takes it correctly, as long as she's been on it long enough to have taken effect. Some couples use condoms in addition, for additional pregnancy protection as well as to prevent STD transmission, but many couples that are monogamous and know they are both free of STDs, are quite comfortable using only the pill as their birth control method. 99% effective against pregnancy is pretty darned effective.
It is possible to get pregnant while menstruating. People will tell you it's not because the very nature of menstruation, but the truth is you can. I know from experience as my son is now 6 years old.
That said I'm against the morning after pill except in cases of rape. For a host of reasons, but one concern is they can throw things in your body off like your next period.
Use protection from now on and make sure she gets back on the pill as condoms aren't a 100% and can break. Make sure she gets a pregnancy test to see if she is pregnant so she can start receiving proper care if she is asap.
Next time don't have unprotected sex.
I know it's hard but believe me the consequence can be dire. I was 17 when I conceived and 18 when my son was born. I wasn't as young as some, but I wish it had been later in life. My story is a happy one as my husband and I are together 6 years later, married, own a home, and have a second son who is now 4. We are done with kids, but life is still good. Most stories don't end like mine. Most teens can't handle what my husband and I did. Nor do they want this type of life.
So don't put yourself at risk. Wrap it up next time. No excuses.
I assume the Pharmacist knew what he was talking about. But WHY did your girlfriend stop taking the pill because she was on her period...? there's still pills to take, every day of the month. (maybe there's a different brand that doesn't have a pill to take every day that I've never been on?) So why didn't you use a condom if she wasn't taking the pills? Too much stress now to really be worth it, huh?
you can not get pregnant on your period as the egg has been released etc.. thats why your bleeding thats the basic theres more about it but theres no point the day she she is most fertile is the 14th day of her period or thats the average so around that time so if you have with her around then theres a high chance in her getting pregnant
No as the type of pill she is on maens she has a break, comes on her period, but is covered during this time even tho she isnt taking it. If she takes it at the right time everyday (when she is supposed to) then its fine!
I have never heard of anyone getting pregnant on her period. Also, if she is on the pill, she is still safe even though she is off during the week she has her cycle. Of couse, nothing if 100% effective but I wouldn't worry.
i'm sure if the pharmacist said is wasnt neccesary, then im sure it will be fine, how about trying a more perminant form of contraception so you dont get worried like this again,ask about the implant las 3 years and can be renewed however many times
It's highly unlikely she could get pregnant while on her period especially since she is on the pill.
It is virtually impossible for a woman to turn into a mom during her period. That's when he body is saying, ';Motherhood? Not this month.';
Apart from your doctor, your pharmacist would be the best one to make educated guesses. Sounds like you maybe safe this time.
She can still get pregnant, it's just very unlikely. Surprised the pharmacist didn't give it to you 'just in case' though?
You are fine.
The pill prevents ovulation. No egg, no baby.
depends...if you did it standing up she can't get pregnantthis works
Chance of her getting pregnant is very low .. i do not think Morning After pill is required ..I need advice about a sexual issue?
It really isn't necessary for you to be so worried. You only need to be worried if she knows for sure that she hadn't been taking the pill correctly in the last week before she began her period. If she took the pill correctly, it would mean she would not have ovulated, and therefore cannot get pregnant. If she takes the pill correctly, then she wil protected against pregnancy, even during the break while she is on her period. You need to read up on the pill. You can't have her rush off to the pharmacy every time you decide to freak out to try and get the morning after pill. The morning after pill is very harsh, and should only be used in emergency situations. There is no need for the morning after pill, stop stressing and educate yourself about the contraceptive pill.
The pharmacist was right. Most birth control pills are taken 21 days, and a week off in which the woman usually gets her period (many pills have a placebo or sugar pill that is taken that week so the woman stays in the habit of taking her daily pill). If she's been on the pill at least a month total, and takes them without fail as she should, then she's protected by the pill (from pregnancy) all the time, even during the 7 day break that she has her period. The risk is no higher during those 7 days than any of the other 21 days she's taking the pill...
While the pill is only about 99% effective, it's that effective all the time a woman takes it correctly, as long as she's been on it long enough to have taken effect. Some couples use condoms in addition, for additional pregnancy protection as well as to prevent STD transmission, but many couples that are monogamous and know they are both free of STDs, are quite comfortable using only the pill as their birth control method. 99% effective against pregnancy is pretty darned effective.
It is possible to get pregnant while menstruating. People will tell you it's not because the very nature of menstruation, but the truth is you can. I know from experience as my son is now 6 years old.
That said I'm against the morning after pill except in cases of rape. For a host of reasons, but one concern is they can throw things in your body off like your next period.
Use protection from now on and make sure she gets back on the pill as condoms aren't a 100% and can break. Make sure she gets a pregnancy test to see if she is pregnant so she can start receiving proper care if she is asap.
Next time don't have unprotected sex.
I know it's hard but believe me the consequence can be dire. I was 17 when I conceived and 18 when my son was born. I wasn't as young as some, but I wish it had been later in life. My story is a happy one as my husband and I are together 6 years later, married, own a home, and have a second son who is now 4. We are done with kids, but life is still good. Most stories don't end like mine. Most teens can't handle what my husband and I did. Nor do they want this type of life.
So don't put yourself at risk. Wrap it up next time. No excuses.
I assume the Pharmacist knew what he was talking about. But WHY did your girlfriend stop taking the pill because she was on her period...? there's still pills to take, every day of the month. (maybe there's a different brand that doesn't have a pill to take every day that I've never been on?) So why didn't you use a condom if she wasn't taking the pills? Too much stress now to really be worth it, huh?
you can not get pregnant on your period as the egg has been released etc.. thats why your bleeding thats the basic theres more about it but theres no point the day she she is most fertile is the 14th day of her period or thats the average so around that time so if you have with her around then theres a high chance in her getting pregnant
No as the type of pill she is on maens she has a break, comes on her period, but is covered during this time even tho she isnt taking it. If she takes it at the right time everyday (when she is supposed to) then its fine!
I have never heard of anyone getting pregnant on her period. Also, if she is on the pill, she is still safe even though she is off during the week she has her cycle. Of couse, nothing if 100% effective but I wouldn't worry.
i'm sure if the pharmacist said is wasnt neccesary, then im sure it will be fine, how about trying a more perminant form of contraception so you dont get worried like this again,ask about the implant las 3 years and can be renewed however many times
It's highly unlikely she could get pregnant while on her period especially since she is on the pill.
It is virtually impossible for a woman to turn into a mom during her period. That's when he body is saying, ';Motherhood? Not this month.';
Apart from your doctor, your pharmacist would be the best one to make educated guesses. Sounds like you maybe safe this time.
She can still get pregnant, it's just very unlikely. Surprised the pharmacist didn't give it to you 'just in case' though?
You are fine.
The pill prevents ovulation. No egg, no baby.
depends...if you did it standing up she can't get pregnant
Really need advice about boys Please Help!?
Okay so i have a boyfriend and we have been dating almost 14 months and i really do love him to pieces but today in school a boy came onto me and without thinking about it i ending up getting off with him behind this pe cubbord and i dont even feel guilty. My current boyfriend (Tom) is sweet but there is no heat and the other boy(Ryan) asked me out
what would you do, Tom or RyanReally need advice about boys Please Help!?
If you dont feel guilty then that is a sure sign that you dont love Tom any more. This may not seem a problem right now, but if you dont feel bad then the chances are you will do this again!
Personally, i'd think about what i want, i know its wrong to lie to Tom, but you could always end it with him without mentioning you have cheated. You dont really want everyone in the school knowing this although Ryan may tell people anyway! Be single if you dont know what you want!Really need advice about boys Please Help!?
Who do you feel more comfortable around ?
Who is going to make you happier and care about you more ?? :)
just have a think about that :) just because someone comes along doesn't mean you should forget what you have,
or talk to your current boyfriend about the heat any maybe he'll help knock it up a switch.
helppp ? :)
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go for ryan because thiere is no harm in trying but you have to name the differences in tom and ryan and then choose its really up to you
Ryan, if you dont dont feel guilty you obviously dont care about tom, in the end tom will just be hurt so go get ryan =]
I'd say dump poor Tom and let him find a decent girl who doesn't play around
You know what they say
';What goes around comes around';
Poor Tom you say you love him but how can you when you'd give him up so easily?
you hosebag!
poor tom deserves better than you....
seems like you have just outgrown tom?
move on i say! or at least tell him how you feel and see if you can re-kindle that flame?
what would you do, Tom or RyanReally need advice about boys Please Help!?
If you dont feel guilty then that is a sure sign that you dont love Tom any more. This may not seem a problem right now, but if you dont feel bad then the chances are you will do this again!
Personally, i'd think about what i want, i know its wrong to lie to Tom, but you could always end it with him without mentioning you have cheated. You dont really want everyone in the school knowing this although Ryan may tell people anyway! Be single if you dont know what you want!Really need advice about boys Please Help!?
Who do you feel more comfortable around ?
Who is going to make you happier and care about you more ?? :)
just have a think about that :) just because someone comes along doesn't mean you should forget what you have,
or talk to your current boyfriend about the heat any maybe he'll help knock it up a switch.
helppp ? :)
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atr9.yyZ4fdoK1z9DlOMjC0azKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20090107070719AALmT7a
go for ryan because thiere is no harm in trying but you have to name the differences in tom and ryan and then choose its really up to you
Ryan, if you dont dont feel guilty you obviously dont care about tom, in the end tom will just be hurt so go get ryan =]
I'd say dump poor Tom and let him find a decent girl who doesn't play around
You know what they say
';What goes around comes around';
Poor Tom you say you love him but how can you when you'd give him up so easily?
you hosebag!
poor tom deserves better than you....
seems like you have just outgrown tom?
move on i say! or at least tell him how you feel and see if you can re-kindle that flame?
What was the best advice you were given about....?
Breastfeeding?
And getting your newborn into a routine?
Dealing with post natal depression?
Dealing with ';enexpected visitors'; in the first weeks?What was the best advice you were given about....?
Breastfeeding? Feed on demand when your baby is hungry. Don't get frustrated and give up when you're tired. It takes a while to learn how to breastfeed. Work with the lactation consultant at the hospital the day you give birth.
Routine? THere won't be one at first. Feed your baby when he/she is hungry, and put them down to sleep when they are tired, usually less than two hours after they wake up.
Postnatal Depression? Expect to feel moody and hormonal and cry. Sleep when your baby sleeps. Forget about doing housework and cooking at first. Let someone else handle that.
Unexpected Visitors? Put hubby in charge of them. If you don't feel up to it, then have hubby tell them to come back at a later time and give them a time to come. Your baby and your needs come first.
Congratulations!What was the best advice you were given about....?
Breastfeeding- stick with it, because it is going to hurt at first and have plenty of lansinoh cream....(I really didn't need the cream for more than a week, my son was a natural at latching on, yeah it hurt at first but not that badly)
Getting him into a routine- Good luck, the best advice really was to sleep when your baby sleeps. They don't know their days from nights, makes for a lot of sleepless nights!
Dealing with post natal depression- I didn't really have that. Only when I brought him home from the hospital I cried every day for about 3 days about everything that could happen to him, and all the bad in the world that I would have to protect him from. Its very overwhelming. My mom used to tell me that I would feel that way, and you never really know until you are actually a mother. Its nuts!
Unexpected Visitors-Thats so rude for people to just show up, just tell them you aren't up for it right now. It's your choice, let them not like it, you make the calls. I hate it when people just show up unexpectedly. There were a couple times where my friends would be like ';Im right up the road and I'm coming to see the baby!'; and I would just tell them, I'm not having any visitors and I'm waiting until he's a bit older. I mean, what can they say??
i found that with breast feeding, it was best to make sure you had a good latch
i also heard that if u roll your nipples in your fingers for about twenty min a day for about a month before the baby, it toughens up your nipples and make feeding hurt less.
have plenty of lanolin cream.
getting into a routine takes time
i would say dont bother until the first 6 weeks are over with. those are the hardest weeks
and always sleep when baby does. he/she will most likely want to get most of their sleep during the day.
with depression, have a good line of communication with someone, and see a proffesion if it gets bad.
and unexpected visitors are going to happen
and maybe have them stay for a little but when you start feeling that you or baby need a break, politely ask them to leave
1) none in the mid 70's hardly anyone breastfed
2) relax- it will take time
3) its normal and will pass in a few weeks
4) dont answer the door- put a sign on the door saying Mommy and __ are taking time to get to know each other , we'll be ready to greet family and friends on _____ (fill in the date)
And getting your newborn into a routine?
Dealing with post natal depression?
Dealing with ';enexpected visitors'; in the first weeks?What was the best advice you were given about....?
Breastfeeding? Feed on demand when your baby is hungry. Don't get frustrated and give up when you're tired. It takes a while to learn how to breastfeed. Work with the lactation consultant at the hospital the day you give birth.
Routine? THere won't be one at first. Feed your baby when he/she is hungry, and put them down to sleep when they are tired, usually less than two hours after they wake up.
Postnatal Depression? Expect to feel moody and hormonal and cry. Sleep when your baby sleeps. Forget about doing housework and cooking at first. Let someone else handle that.
Unexpected Visitors? Put hubby in charge of them. If you don't feel up to it, then have hubby tell them to come back at a later time and give them a time to come. Your baby and your needs come first.
Congratulations!What was the best advice you were given about....?
Breastfeeding- stick with it, because it is going to hurt at first and have plenty of lansinoh cream....(I really didn't need the cream for more than a week, my son was a natural at latching on, yeah it hurt at first but not that badly)
Getting him into a routine- Good luck, the best advice really was to sleep when your baby sleeps. They don't know their days from nights, makes for a lot of sleepless nights!
Dealing with post natal depression- I didn't really have that. Only when I brought him home from the hospital I cried every day for about 3 days about everything that could happen to him, and all the bad in the world that I would have to protect him from. Its very overwhelming. My mom used to tell me that I would feel that way, and you never really know until you are actually a mother. Its nuts!
Unexpected Visitors-Thats so rude for people to just show up, just tell them you aren't up for it right now. It's your choice, let them not like it, you make the calls. I hate it when people just show up unexpectedly. There were a couple times where my friends would be like ';Im right up the road and I'm coming to see the baby!'; and I would just tell them, I'm not having any visitors and I'm waiting until he's a bit older. I mean, what can they say??
i found that with breast feeding, it was best to make sure you had a good latch
i also heard that if u roll your nipples in your fingers for about twenty min a day for about a month before the baby, it toughens up your nipples and make feeding hurt less.
have plenty of lanolin cream.
getting into a routine takes time
i would say dont bother until the first 6 weeks are over with. those are the hardest weeks
and always sleep when baby does. he/she will most likely want to get most of their sleep during the day.
with depression, have a good line of communication with someone, and see a proffesion if it gets bad.
and unexpected visitors are going to happen
and maybe have them stay for a little but when you start feeling that you or baby need a break, politely ask them to leave
1) none in the mid 70's hardly anyone breastfed
2) relax- it will take time
3) its normal and will pass in a few weeks
4) dont answer the door- put a sign on the door saying Mommy and __ are taking time to get to know each other , we'll be ready to greet family and friends on _____ (fill in the date)
I need advice about my job?
My manager hired a good friend of hers and gave her certain days off. She can't work those days off, so she demanded new ones. Well, those new days off just screwed the rest of us. The whole schedule is now completely off and doesn't make any sense. I have been with this company for two years, and I get a note yesterday from the manager telling me she wants to change my days off! There are other people she could have bumped, plus with this new person getting her way everyone wants me to rebel. Changing my days off really shouldn't bother me, but now I have to rearrange my schedule for this new person! The good part is, my manager takes no for an answer. But what is the best way to turn her down without sounding like a complete jerk?I need advice about my job?
My employees have the option to come in and discuss any issues. I wouldn't mind if you came in and said exactly what you just wrote down. Your boss needs to know she has created a problem in the office with her decisions regarding this new employee. Don't keep going home with this on your mind every night. Go in, say what you feel in a calm manner. Don't point fingers, just voice your concerns. Be tactful. I bet it will turn out better than you think. If not, at least you know where you stand in the pecking order.I need advice about my job?
Tough one. Just be up front and honest with her like you were in your question, and she should be understanding. I began to hate the politics, myself, in the public schools, so I started my home business. If you are interested in trying THAT route as a solution, check out my profile.
My employees have the option to come in and discuss any issues. I wouldn't mind if you came in and said exactly what you just wrote down. Your boss needs to know she has created a problem in the office with her decisions regarding this new employee. Don't keep going home with this on your mind every night. Go in, say what you feel in a calm manner. Don't point fingers, just voice your concerns. Be tactful. I bet it will turn out better than you think. If not, at least you know where you stand in the pecking order.I need advice about my job?
Tough one. Just be up front and honest with her like you were in your question, and she should be understanding. I began to hate the politics, myself, in the public schools, so I started my home business. If you are interested in trying THAT route as a solution, check out my profile.
Alright, I really need some advice about losing weight...?
First of all, I know I'm not fat, but I really would like to lose some weight. - for example, I want my legs to be thinner, and etc
I currently weight 125, height 5'4 and wear size 2 in pants
I would like to weigh 113...
I currently exercise about 2-3 hours a day and eat 800-1200 calories a day. I know that amount of calorie intake is rather few, but that's what I'm doing to try to lose weight.
Problem is, I only manage to lose to 120 and that's it. How can I lose more?
Please, serious answers.Alright, I really need some advice about losing weight...?
If you follow these tips you will lose weight.
First of all your body can healthly lose only 2-4 lbs a week. Also i would not reccomend one of those diet books or programs because once you lose the weight you will go back to doing what you did before and gain it all back.
Here is what you need to cut out of your diet or limit.
-sodas they are empty calories and just add fat.
-also juices try to limit 1 cup of o.j. has as much sugar as a can of soda.
-fast food. they provide no nutrients and terrible meals they do have healthly selections at all fast food stores if you pic those you will do much better.
-junk food is also empty calories its ok now and then just don't over do it.
Here are foods that you can indulge on.
-veggies since they are so healthy for you and provide you with many nutrients the calories in them are meaningless.
-water!! you should drink64oz. a day at first you will pee alot but then you will get used to it.
-when eating meat try to eat chicken because it is the best.
other tips
- try to have baked foods not fried.
-eat breakfast and try to have it mostly be complex carbs like oatmeal and wheat bread they will give you energy all throughout the day.
-don't skip meals when you do your body thinks it is being starved so it will hold in more calories instead of burning them.
WORKING OUT
you need to buy some weights or go to a gym and work on increasing your muscles. because that will increase you resting metabolic rate which is how many calories you burn while simply doing nothing and you will see weight loss just from that also doing 50-100 squats(5-10min) will help increase muscle in your legs.
running is also a good way to help your overall apperience.
and pilates is a good way to tone your body a simple pilates tape done three times a week along with weights and you will see a difference.
go online and find some healthy meal recipes and use them try to reduce the number of calories you take in daily but not by too much.
hope this helps you.
and make sure not to over eat try to get no more than2000 calories a dayAlright, I really need some advice about losing weight...?
you need to exercise and diet daily like NO:
soda
white bread
energy bars
anything with high fructose corn syrup and particially hydrogenated vegatable oil.
lower your intake of sugar,salt, fat and calorie intake.
You need to do lots of cardio:
jump rope - really effective
running hills - effective
distance - effective
push-ups with sit ups - good
plyometrics - effective
all these things i have listed are good. and i do all of them. i have made my normal program and then my advanced program. I hope this helps. :)
matthew
If you don't drink enough water your body will start to retain water. you must drink 2 to 3 liters a day and avoid also sugar
Your current BMI is 21.5 and that is perfectly healthy. It may not be smart to focus on your legs because you could be genetically built that way. It may also be that you are seeking perfection and you ain't ever going to get that. You sound just fine to me so be happy with the way you are.
Why do you want to weigh 113? I am a doctor. In my training i learned that ';ideal body weight'; for women should be about 100 pounds for the first 5 feet, then 5 pounds an inch. By this, you should weigh 120 pounds. Your body is telling you something by holding on to your current weight. Remember muscle weighs more than fat, so inch for inch, fit people weigh more than fat people.
If you really want to know about nutrition, you should go to www.mypyramid.gov. This has very good information written by doctors and nutritionist. You will find that it is not healthy for you to take in so few calories.
Sounds like you are at the right weight and should enjoy that.
Drink lots of water - no sugar - no trans fats - and keep the carbohydrates down. There are good carbs - but watch out for the bad ones.
Hi, Do you want to lose weight %26amp; tone up, or build strength %26amp; muscle mass? I can help you. I am a personal trainer, bodybuilder %26amp; life coach with 25 years experience. Please contact me at dcprice1@shaw.ca Thanks.
neXgen bodysculpting
I currently weight 125, height 5'4 and wear size 2 in pants
I would like to weigh 113...
I currently exercise about 2-3 hours a day and eat 800-1200 calories a day. I know that amount of calorie intake is rather few, but that's what I'm doing to try to lose weight.
Problem is, I only manage to lose to 120 and that's it. How can I lose more?
Please, serious answers.Alright, I really need some advice about losing weight...?
If you follow these tips you will lose weight.
First of all your body can healthly lose only 2-4 lbs a week. Also i would not reccomend one of those diet books or programs because once you lose the weight you will go back to doing what you did before and gain it all back.
Here is what you need to cut out of your diet or limit.
-sodas they are empty calories and just add fat.
-also juices try to limit 1 cup of o.j. has as much sugar as a can of soda.
-fast food. they provide no nutrients and terrible meals they do have healthly selections at all fast food stores if you pic those you will do much better.
-junk food is also empty calories its ok now and then just don't over do it.
Here are foods that you can indulge on.
-veggies since they are so healthy for you and provide you with many nutrients the calories in them are meaningless.
-water!! you should drink64oz. a day at first you will pee alot but then you will get used to it.
-when eating meat try to eat chicken because it is the best.
other tips
- try to have baked foods not fried.
-eat breakfast and try to have it mostly be complex carbs like oatmeal and wheat bread they will give you energy all throughout the day.
-don't skip meals when you do your body thinks it is being starved so it will hold in more calories instead of burning them.
WORKING OUT
you need to buy some weights or go to a gym and work on increasing your muscles. because that will increase you resting metabolic rate which is how many calories you burn while simply doing nothing and you will see weight loss just from that also doing 50-100 squats(5-10min) will help increase muscle in your legs.
running is also a good way to help your overall apperience.
and pilates is a good way to tone your body a simple pilates tape done three times a week along with weights and you will see a difference.
go online and find some healthy meal recipes and use them try to reduce the number of calories you take in daily but not by too much.
hope this helps you.
and make sure not to over eat try to get no more than2000 calories a dayAlright, I really need some advice about losing weight...?
you need to exercise and diet daily like NO:
soda
white bread
energy bars
anything with high fructose corn syrup and particially hydrogenated vegatable oil.
lower your intake of sugar,salt, fat and calorie intake.
You need to do lots of cardio:
jump rope - really effective
running hills - effective
distance - effective
push-ups with sit ups - good
plyometrics - effective
all these things i have listed are good. and i do all of them. i have made my normal program and then my advanced program. I hope this helps. :)
matthew
If you don't drink enough water your body will start to retain water. you must drink 2 to 3 liters a day and avoid also sugar
Your current BMI is 21.5 and that is perfectly healthy. It may not be smart to focus on your legs because you could be genetically built that way. It may also be that you are seeking perfection and you ain't ever going to get that. You sound just fine to me so be happy with the way you are.
Why do you want to weigh 113? I am a doctor. In my training i learned that ';ideal body weight'; for women should be about 100 pounds for the first 5 feet, then 5 pounds an inch. By this, you should weigh 120 pounds. Your body is telling you something by holding on to your current weight. Remember muscle weighs more than fat, so inch for inch, fit people weigh more than fat people.
If you really want to know about nutrition, you should go to www.mypyramid.gov. This has very good information written by doctors and nutritionist. You will find that it is not healthy for you to take in so few calories.
Sounds like you are at the right weight and should enjoy that.
Drink lots of water - no sugar - no trans fats - and keep the carbohydrates down. There are good carbs - but watch out for the bad ones.
Hi, Do you want to lose weight %26amp; tone up, or build strength %26amp; muscle mass? I can help you. I am a personal trainer, bodybuilder %26amp; life coach with 25 years experience. Please contact me at dcprice1@shaw.ca Thanks.
neXgen bodysculpting
Guys was my mom's advice about u right? If you're interested, will u do everything in your power to talk 2 us
or could shyness/insecurity really be factored in? If you truly have you're eye on a girl, will you approach us first?Guys was my mom's advice about u right? If you're interested, will u do everything in your power to talk 2 us
Shyness and insecurity can be factors, and so can other reasons. There are many different types of guys, and here are your four main types of guys you will run into.
The SHY guy - He is the one that has little or no friends, and usually spends his time alone in solitude or with the small network of friends he has. He will find it next to impossible to ask any female out at all, and is embarrassed easily.
The INSECURE guy - He can be shy too, but he may have many friends of both sexes or just a few, but his main problem comes from asking girls out. He may have been embarrassed one time or a few times by being put down when he asked a girl out. He may even feel that a girl is out of his league and finds it hard to approach her, because of it.
The HURT guy - This guy has many friends, and that is the way he likes it, because he feels safest that way. He used to have no problems asking girls out, but after being rejected many times or being burnt from many different relationships, he no longer feel safe asking for fear of being rejected again, or if he isn't rejected then, he gets so emotionally involved in the relationship only to get hurt in the end that he fears being burnt again and loses trust in all women.
The CONFIDENT guy 鈥?This guy either isn't deterrent by rejection, because he sees that there are plenty of fish in the sea, or hasn鈥檛 been really hurt and burnt enough to care yet. This is the guy that your mother is talking about. These guys can approach any woman and take rejection with a grain of salt. These guys also know that they are playing a numbers game. The more females you ask, the more of a chance one of them will say yes to them. Of course he may have to ask 20 鈥?100 before he gets a yes.
As for me, I am a Hurt Guy. I can approach may women, but I will not ask, because I have been hurt and burnt too many time to trust women anymore. I like my friends, and I have many of both sexes. If I were to ever get involved with a woman again, she would have to make the first move, and she would have to be able to knock down my self-defense walls that have built up over the many times I have been hurt an d burnt. In other words, she will have to be a very special woman.
I hope this helps you understand the four main groups of guys better, but there can be cross matches between the groups as well. Good Luck.Guys was my mom's advice about u right? If you're interested, will u do everything in your power to talk 2 us
A lot of guys don't approach women because they're worried she'll say no, and he might feel let down, and if she says yes, he may not know what to do from there. Every guy HAS the power to talk to women; they talk to cashiers, bank tellers, etc., but the problem is they can't seem to ACCESS the power. They may not realize that women are also human, and are not goddesses. They feel pressured to perform, and that's when anxiety kicks in. Personally, I always approach her first, and I don't care if she accepts or not. Talking to women is easy for me because, lo and behold, they're HUMAN to me.
Shyness and insecurity can be factors, and so can other reasons. There are many different types of guys, and here are your four main types of guys you will run into.
The SHY guy - He is the one that has little or no friends, and usually spends his time alone in solitude or with the small network of friends he has. He will find it next to impossible to ask any female out at all, and is embarrassed easily.
The INSECURE guy - He can be shy too, but he may have many friends of both sexes or just a few, but his main problem comes from asking girls out. He may have been embarrassed one time or a few times by being put down when he asked a girl out. He may even feel that a girl is out of his league and finds it hard to approach her, because of it.
The HURT guy - This guy has many friends, and that is the way he likes it, because he feels safest that way. He used to have no problems asking girls out, but after being rejected many times or being burnt from many different relationships, he no longer feel safe asking for fear of being rejected again, or if he isn't rejected then, he gets so emotionally involved in the relationship only to get hurt in the end that he fears being burnt again and loses trust in all women.
The CONFIDENT guy 鈥?This guy either isn't deterrent by rejection, because he sees that there are plenty of fish in the sea, or hasn鈥檛 been really hurt and burnt enough to care yet. This is the guy that your mother is talking about. These guys can approach any woman and take rejection with a grain of salt. These guys also know that they are playing a numbers game. The more females you ask, the more of a chance one of them will say yes to them. Of course he may have to ask 20 鈥?100 before he gets a yes.
As for me, I am a Hurt Guy. I can approach may women, but I will not ask, because I have been hurt and burnt too many time to trust women anymore. I like my friends, and I have many of both sexes. If I were to ever get involved with a woman again, she would have to make the first move, and she would have to be able to knock down my self-defense walls that have built up over the many times I have been hurt an d burnt. In other words, she will have to be a very special woman.
I hope this helps you understand the four main groups of guys better, but there can be cross matches between the groups as well. Good Luck.Guys was my mom's advice about u right? If you're interested, will u do everything in your power to talk 2 us
A lot of guys don't approach women because they're worried she'll say no, and he might feel let down, and if she says yes, he may not know what to do from there. Every guy HAS the power to talk to women; they talk to cashiers, bank tellers, etc., but the problem is they can't seem to ACCESS the power. They may not realize that women are also human, and are not goddesses. They feel pressured to perform, and that's when anxiety kicks in. Personally, I always approach her first, and I don't care if she accepts or not. Talking to women is easy for me because, lo and behold, they're HUMAN to me.
Does any body have any advice about joining the police (uk)?
I could give loads of advice. I wouldn't do it again. I'd try something else. They are not very popular these days.this works
I really need some good advice about this guys behavior?
ok heres a long story shortened. i met this guy at work he knows i have a bf i have been with for 5 years but things r getting really bad. we started out as friends and got closer. we ended up sleeping together one night and at work he always call me babe or come up with cute little nicknames for me and i do for him. he bought me a bracelet when he went on vacation and called me every day ect. well for the last 3 months all this has been going on but every few weeks he gets real weird and barely will talk to me and acts diffrently towards me like he wont call me babe or say anything sweet and acts like a stranger towards me. well last week i went on vacation and the first 3 days he texted me saying how much he missed me and missed my smile ect. i came back to work today and i immediatly said hi to him and said i missed him so much and he just said yeah me too and barely talked to me the whole day. then we he left for the night he just said hey have a good night there.I really need some good advice about this guys behavior?
He doen't like the fact you have a boyfriend. I don't like the fact either if you're messing around with this guy. Breakup with the boyfriend if you want but don't act like a whore and sleep around behind his back.I really need some good advice about this guys behavior?
I believe he is in a very confused state of mind right now, and he doesn't know how to cope with it. it sounds like he really likes you but knows that he can't be with you because you are seeing someone else. And because you guys have slept together, actions like that really change things, especially when you guys work together. My thought is that he thinks you two can never be anything more than a fling because you do have a boyfriend. And this little wired situation you guys have going will only stop if you sit down and have a really serious conversation with him. You need to work something out with him, if you are not going to leave your current boyfriend for him, i don't think its fair for you two keep seeing him or calling him anything other than a friend, but if you want to be with him, than be with him and leave your boyfriend. It's just not fair to him or your boyfriend(who probably doesn't know) for this love triangle to live on.
DO something fast, it's not gonna get better, just worst.
I wish you luck. =)
He doen't like the fact you have a boyfriend. I don't like the fact either if you're messing around with this guy. Breakup with the boyfriend if you want but don't act like a whore and sleep around behind his back.I really need some good advice about this guys behavior?
I believe he is in a very confused state of mind right now, and he doesn't know how to cope with it. it sounds like he really likes you but knows that he can't be with you because you are seeing someone else. And because you guys have slept together, actions like that really change things, especially when you guys work together. My thought is that he thinks you two can never be anything more than a fling because you do have a boyfriend. And this little wired situation you guys have going will only stop if you sit down and have a really serious conversation with him. You need to work something out with him, if you are not going to leave your current boyfriend for him, i don't think its fair for you two keep seeing him or calling him anything other than a friend, but if you want to be with him, than be with him and leave your boyfriend. It's just not fair to him or your boyfriend(who probably doesn't know) for this love triangle to live on.
DO something fast, it's not gonna get better, just worst.
I wish you luck. =)
What advice would you give a child about having sex?
what wuld u tell ur son or daughter and wha advice wuld u give them about sexuality?What advice would you give a child about having sex?
For kids age 14 and under I'll tell them don't do it (PERIOD)
For Kids age 15 to 17 I'll tell them use a condom and don't get pregnant or don't get them pregnant.
For 18 and older they can make their own decisions on how and when to have sex.What advice would you give a child about having sex?
Wait, till you're 18 ! Thats early enough !
:- )
If i had a kid. i would tell him/her to Use protection and do it when your ready.
As a parent myself I feel the best protection is knowledge. If we teach our children and educate them on what is normal at their age, they are able to figure out what is not and if there is a problem come to you.
I would not advocate my child having sex, of course we all know that at some point there is a good chance they will, but on their terms and when they are emotionally ready which usually isn't until they are in there late 20's. lol
If our children are informed about their bodies and feel comfortable concerning them.
When they become young adults and those hormones are raging they will practice self-love aka masturbation and not look to others to full fill their needs but themselves.
Don't do it until they get married.
Dont share toys
abstinence is best. you wont get std's or get pregnant.
tell them to wait til they are atleast 18.
just say what you think honestly
SEX KILLS PEOPLE! lol
But seriously, 1) man+woman+sex=BABY, Always, no exceptions.
2) Over 105% of the population has AIDs.
3) Sex is VERY painful and usually kills people.
And then as they get older, I'd probably tell them the truth. =D
I would need an age of the child before I can give an answer. A child needs an age appropriate answer. If they are coming to you with questions and they are under 13, then I would be as honest as I could be and just answer the question. After age 13, then I think they need ';the talk.'; With my kids we told them the reasons people have sex, oury opinion about waiting, but I gave them all the information on safe sex because I feel they needed to protect themselves against diseases and pregnancy, should they decide to go against our advice. Safety is foremost with us.
Use protection. Don't do it. I don't know, I don't have kids. I'm still at the age where I should be getting the advice. Ha ha.
It's normal to think about it, and you'll probably hear your friends talk about it. The reason we don't want you to, is because it's a serious thing, that could kill you if you're not careful, and mess you up if you're not ready. And if it's a young girl you're talking about, tell her about all the mind games boys play to get it.
JUST WAIT!!!!
It depends on what questions my child asked me. If I had a child that didn't ask questions or tell me about their live I think as a mom I would put a condom where they could find it so they would talk to me. That would certainly get their attention and I could tell them : I don't want to know if you are or not but if you are please use protection. I would rather you not be doing anything but if you have questions you can ask.
Right now my children have an open relationship with me but she and he are not very old but she does ask questions and I always try to answer them.
don't do it.
i was told that i was trusted. if i really wanted to have sex and was sure! then it was okay to do it, but only if i was safe, let your kid know its okay, everyones going to do it, not at 13! but around 16 everyone is open to it, you cant watch your kid 24/7 or know if they go behind your back, but if worst came to worse, you'd wanna be there for them right? not have them hide it from you because you said ';NO!'; and they messed up :]
hope it helps.
one of my best friends had sex in fifth grade she got pregnant and died just tell them not to do it.
I Would tell them not to do it at such an early age. Then I would tell them the consequences that come with it.The benefits of not having sex like energie, straight the joy of your fresh sanity.The joy of waiting and how much better it would be to wait. Then if its to late I would give them all the heads ups about diseases and pregnancies, stress.Then I would say good night and snick out for some cooled ones a couple if you know what I mean.
This is a good site to look over...
http://www.gravityteen.com/prenatal/girls_only.cfm
It has information for guys and girl.s.
Umm dont have sex and if you do use condoms and if you get pregnant its your own dumb *** fault
depends on the age
teenager be graphic about OTHER ISSUES besides a possiable baby and hope they listen
younger be age appropicate
Everything. The Truth and the whole truth.
Use a condom every time.
Condoms break
If you can't afford a baby you shouldn't take the risk
Highschool love almost never last forever
Pulling out is not a safe way to prevent babies because of precum
Many people have an STD and don't know it so use a condom
Use a latex condom because membrane condoms can transmit disease
It feels good
Sex isn't love
If your parents catch you, you are grounded forever.
If her parents catch you, you might go to jail for statatory rape.
No, means no
Sex with drunk women is rape if she says so in the morning.
For kids age 14 and under I'll tell them don't do it (PERIOD)
For Kids age 15 to 17 I'll tell them use a condom and don't get pregnant or don't get them pregnant.
For 18 and older they can make their own decisions on how and when to have sex.What advice would you give a child about having sex?
Wait, till you're 18 ! Thats early enough !
:- )
If i had a kid. i would tell him/her to Use protection and do it when your ready.
As a parent myself I feel the best protection is knowledge. If we teach our children and educate them on what is normal at their age, they are able to figure out what is not and if there is a problem come to you.
I would not advocate my child having sex, of course we all know that at some point there is a good chance they will, but on their terms and when they are emotionally ready which usually isn't until they are in there late 20's. lol
If our children are informed about their bodies and feel comfortable concerning them.
When they become young adults and those hormones are raging they will practice self-love aka masturbation and not look to others to full fill their needs but themselves.
Don't do it until they get married.
Dont share toys
abstinence is best. you wont get std's or get pregnant.
tell them to wait til they are atleast 18.
just say what you think honestly
SEX KILLS PEOPLE! lol
But seriously, 1) man+woman+sex=BABY, Always, no exceptions.
2) Over 105% of the population has AIDs.
3) Sex is VERY painful and usually kills people.
And then as they get older, I'd probably tell them the truth. =D
I would need an age of the child before I can give an answer. A child needs an age appropriate answer. If they are coming to you with questions and they are under 13, then I would be as honest as I could be and just answer the question. After age 13, then I think they need ';the talk.'; With my kids we told them the reasons people have sex, oury opinion about waiting, but I gave them all the information on safe sex because I feel they needed to protect themselves against diseases and pregnancy, should they decide to go against our advice. Safety is foremost with us.
Use protection. Don't do it. I don't know, I don't have kids. I'm still at the age where I should be getting the advice. Ha ha.
It's normal to think about it, and you'll probably hear your friends talk about it. The reason we don't want you to, is because it's a serious thing, that could kill you if you're not careful, and mess you up if you're not ready. And if it's a young girl you're talking about, tell her about all the mind games boys play to get it.
JUST WAIT!!!!
It depends on what questions my child asked me. If I had a child that didn't ask questions or tell me about their live I think as a mom I would put a condom where they could find it so they would talk to me. That would certainly get their attention and I could tell them : I don't want to know if you are or not but if you are please use protection. I would rather you not be doing anything but if you have questions you can ask.
Right now my children have an open relationship with me but she and he are not very old but she does ask questions and I always try to answer them.
don't do it.
i was told that i was trusted. if i really wanted to have sex and was sure! then it was okay to do it, but only if i was safe, let your kid know its okay, everyones going to do it, not at 13! but around 16 everyone is open to it, you cant watch your kid 24/7 or know if they go behind your back, but if worst came to worse, you'd wanna be there for them right? not have them hide it from you because you said ';NO!'; and they messed up :]
hope it helps.
one of my best friends had sex in fifth grade she got pregnant and died just tell them not to do it.
I Would tell them not to do it at such an early age. Then I would tell them the consequences that come with it.The benefits of not having sex like energie, straight the joy of your fresh sanity.The joy of waiting and how much better it would be to wait. Then if its to late I would give them all the heads ups about diseases and pregnancies, stress.Then I would say good night and snick out for some cooled ones a couple if you know what I mean.
This is a good site to look over...
http://www.gravityteen.com/prenatal/girls_only.cfm
It has information for guys and girl.s.
Umm dont have sex and if you do use condoms and if you get pregnant its your own dumb *** fault
depends on the age
teenager be graphic about OTHER ISSUES besides a possiable baby and hope they listen
younger be age appropicate
Everything. The Truth and the whole truth.
Use a condom every time.
Condoms break
If you can't afford a baby you shouldn't take the risk
Highschool love almost never last forever
Pulling out is not a safe way to prevent babies because of precum
Many people have an STD and don't know it so use a condom
Use a latex condom because membrane condoms can transmit disease
It feels good
Sex isn't love
If your parents catch you, you are grounded forever.
If her parents catch you, you might go to jail for statatory rape.
No, means no
Sex with drunk women is rape if she says so in the morning.
Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
if you could turn back time, how would you do things differently about professional life, family life, love life, etc in a way that builds happiness and fulfillment? or maybe you look back fondly at what you did do?
what advice would you give to someone in the late 20s that wants to live a long healthy and happy life?Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
1. Always address the source of your unhappiness.
2. Recognize the connection between mind and body.
3. Be self-aware. Learn how you sabotage your happiness and successes in those areas.
4. Learn to let go.
5. Surround yourself with positive people. Limit your contact with negative people including complainers, whiners and drama queens.
6. Consider that any problem is an opportunity.
7. Surround yourself with people who you are compatible with. (Not interests) A shy person and a social person will have ongoing conflict and difficulties.
8. Learn from the experience of others. Don't repeat someone else's mistakes just to have the experience.
9. Learn to clear your mind of clutter. A weekly house cleaning of troublesome thoughts is highly beneficial.Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
Recall the successful business man in ';The Graduate'; who advised the recent college grad: ';plastics';
My advice to you is: solar
alcohol and a steady lay, what more do you need?
The past you live is what makes you who you are today, The trials bring growth, the painful times bring purging and strength, the happy bring fond memories. For me I just remember two things... there is only one person I HAVE to live with my whole life..me. As long as I can look in the mirror and like who I see, I can be happy. The other is that at the end of this life there is one Other who gets to say if he was happy with me...;-)
I think one thing that is very important to have something that you are both very interested in. It could be a church or something like, hiking, water gardening (Koi), golfing, bicycling, art in some form, flying a plane...well, be creative.
After we have been married for many years, to enjoy a common interest, creates a bond. It's a passion you share!
You will fill your years with fond memories, videos, photos, much laughter. It makes for a healthy relationship!
My husband and I have had our spiritual growth in common...we talk endlessly of the latest book we have read, etc. We also are also both painters and have fun hanging our work all around the house. We look like a gallery, here!
Of course, we have had our family and pets...they kept us pretty busy for a long while.
To find out your 'personality types' through Meyer's/Briggs is a real good idea. It honestly does help you to get more of an inside view of your partner...it helps not to step on toes over and over again. We did this and it has helped us a lot.
Don't go into debt...not overly...it causes arguments. And, of course, you know a healthy sex life and emotional support are most important!!
Don't ever be afraid to seek counseling if things seem strained. Living together can be tough and great...it's a mixture! Much happiness to you!
i would stress how important it is to love yourself...and more importantly to love being WITH yourself...that means you dont have to have someone to love you back (youre healthier when you dont NEED love), you love what you DO and you love who you are becoming.....its an awful life when youre unhappy being alone (that WILL happen), hate your job and you arent using your talents to discover more of yourself.
The only lasting fullfillment and happiness in life is found in your relationship with God. Be you christian,jew, atheist, voodoo, muslim, etc.
Meditation. Everything you need you have. Taking time out from all the crap is the best way to access it. you get better and better and being internally happy, and things don't bother you like they used to. It translates to every other area of your life on its own.
I would change nothing about my past if I had my life to live again. I have had a rich full life and am happy, healthy and positive.
I would recommend that you travel. Be sure you have a good education. But I think the most important thing is that you keep an open mind with a good attitude.
My advise is to keep your eyes open and see and learn all you can. The more things you know, the more you can do. Focus is good, but always try new things. Learning is one key to happiness.
Love unconditionally. Do not put expectations in your gift of love, give it freely.
Listen! If you listen to what people are saying, not just their words, but between the lines, you will communicate better. This will help your relationships.
what advice would you give to someone in the late 20s that wants to live a long healthy and happy life?Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
1. Always address the source of your unhappiness.
2. Recognize the connection between mind and body.
3. Be self-aware. Learn how you sabotage your happiness and successes in those areas.
4. Learn to let go.
5. Surround yourself with positive people. Limit your contact with negative people including complainers, whiners and drama queens.
6. Consider that any problem is an opportunity.
7. Surround yourself with people who you are compatible with. (Not interests) A shy person and a social person will have ongoing conflict and difficulties.
8. Learn from the experience of others. Don't repeat someone else's mistakes just to have the experience.
9. Learn to clear your mind of clutter. A weekly house cleaning of troublesome thoughts is highly beneficial.Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
Recall the successful business man in ';The Graduate'; who advised the recent college grad: ';plastics';
My advice to you is: solar
alcohol and a steady lay, what more do you need?
The past you live is what makes you who you are today, The trials bring growth, the painful times bring purging and strength, the happy bring fond memories. For me I just remember two things... there is only one person I HAVE to live with my whole life..me. As long as I can look in the mirror and like who I see, I can be happy. The other is that at the end of this life there is one Other who gets to say if he was happy with me...;-)
I think one thing that is very important to have something that you are both very interested in. It could be a church or something like, hiking, water gardening (Koi), golfing, bicycling, art in some form, flying a plane...well, be creative.
After we have been married for many years, to enjoy a common interest, creates a bond. It's a passion you share!
You will fill your years with fond memories, videos, photos, much laughter. It makes for a healthy relationship!
My husband and I have had our spiritual growth in common...we talk endlessly of the latest book we have read, etc. We also are also both painters and have fun hanging our work all around the house. We look like a gallery, here!
Of course, we have had our family and pets...they kept us pretty busy for a long while.
To find out your 'personality types' through Meyer's/Briggs is a real good idea. It honestly does help you to get more of an inside view of your partner...it helps not to step on toes over and over again. We did this and it has helped us a lot.
Don't go into debt...not overly...it causes arguments. And, of course, you know a healthy sex life and emotional support are most important!!
Don't ever be afraid to seek counseling if things seem strained. Living together can be tough and great...it's a mixture! Much happiness to you!
i would stress how important it is to love yourself...and more importantly to love being WITH yourself...that means you dont have to have someone to love you back (youre healthier when you dont NEED love), you love what you DO and you love who you are becoming.....its an awful life when youre unhappy being alone (that WILL happen), hate your job and you arent using your talents to discover more of yourself.
The only lasting fullfillment and happiness in life is found in your relationship with God. Be you christian,jew, atheist, voodoo, muslim, etc.
Meditation. Everything you need you have. Taking time out from all the crap is the best way to access it. you get better and better and being internally happy, and things don't bother you like they used to. It translates to every other area of your life on its own.
I would change nothing about my past if I had my life to live again. I have had a rich full life and am happy, healthy and positive.
I would recommend that you travel. Be sure you have a good education. But I think the most important thing is that you keep an open mind with a good attitude.
My advise is to keep your eyes open and see and learn all you can. The more things you know, the more you can do. Focus is good, but always try new things. Learning is one key to happiness.
Love unconditionally. Do not put expectations in your gift of love, give it freely.
Listen! If you listen to what people are saying, not just their words, but between the lines, you will communicate better. This will help your relationships.
Please Help Single Mom Needs Advice about Auto Accident?
On 4/6 I was sitting at a stop light in my Eclipse had some sort of SUV in front of me and was hit from behind without warning by a ford f250.I am told that the rear end of my car was lifted off the ground the spoiler and trunk removed and I was pushed under the SUV in front of me all I remember is the glass shattering. I was transported to the ER had numerous tests no broken bones but plenty of neck and back pain, the worst part is that in 2001 I had back surgery (a cage to replace a disc in my low back) and I was feeling great now this is where I am feeling alot of pain. I work in an alzheimer unit at an assisted living facility I am obviously not going to go back until I heal I am a single mom living paycheck to paycheck ...what do people do when they can't work after an accident how am I gonna feed my kids??? Any information will be much appreciated I have contacted an attorney but have to wait till Monday if u have had this happen to u please give me some hope. Thanks JackiePlease Help Single Mom Needs Advice about Auto Accident?
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, however, this is one of those where you have to decide whether to do what you have to do to feed your kids or stay at home and worry about how you're gonna feed your kids.
If you're hiring an attorney, if they haven't already you told you how it works, it works like this....he'll settle your case when you're done treating. You incur all expenses associated with your medical treatment, or if he's shady, he'll tell the medical doctors to treat you on a lien. He can't pay your bills feed your kids or front you any money....no one will. How you feed your kids and pay your bills is something you have to deal with. Once your case settles...that's when you'll receive money and not a penny before hand.
If your doctors sign a disability form you may be able to recieve disability benefits from your state or your employer, so I would check with your HR department to see how those benefits work, assuming you qualify for them.Please Help Single Mom Needs Advice about Auto Accident?
Well, now that you have hired a lawyer any advice we give you is worthless. If this had happened to me I would have filed a claim with my personal med insurance and disability insurance and worked with the claims adjuster until he/she made me an offer (of course, now you will never, ever know what that would have been). Who knows? You may require surgery, theraphy, etc. This could possibly exhaust the other person's insurance limits -- and now your lawyer will get 40% of that. He/she/it will also drag this out for months (or years) trying to soak you for as much billing as possible. Make no mistake, lawyers work for themselves 100% of the time -- no exceptions. You are a cockroach to them, they do not care about you, they don't want to hear from you and they think everyone in the world is beneath them. Insurance companies are bound by law not to deal directly with you now that you are represented. I only pray that your scum lawyer hasn't promised you the moon.
PS - insurance companies are NOT afraid of lawyers.
Good luck.
I'll tell ya what. it will get worse be fore it gets better. Contact the local church and local temporary welfare/foodstamp place. Think about food centers. don't be afraid to ask family freinds for assistance. Make sure your hounding the guy with the F-250's insurance company 3 times a day writing down every bit of information. You should be on the phone every waking business hour trying to get food, money for bills, resolve your insurance claim and get disability started. I don't know how disability works, contact your unemployment office about that.
Why dont you ask your attorney... since you ran and got one right away? You do realize that with that attorney you have now delayed payment on your claim for likely atleast a year if not several? Attorneys dont care how long it takes before they settle- they just care about getting money. What are you going to do in the meantime? You know you dont get payments fromt he at fault party right? You get one final settlement when everything is said and done. How are you going to afford living expenses in the meantime?
Its saddens me when i see people run off to attorneys before they need to. You could be feeling fine in two weeks and settle the case with the insurance company and move on your life... now youve sentenced yourself for years to come with no settlement.
Again another ? that was asked without telling us what state you are in. If we know what state you are in we could provide better help. OK, I'm done complaining now. So let me suggest the following
1. If you have insurance check your policy to see if has any coverages that might provide for some lost wage coverage. Look for a Personal Injury Protection Coverage (PIP). In some states (Minnesota comes to mind) PIP coverage will pay partial wage loss from your own policy if a DR. disables you.It's not your decision to decide that you can't work under this type of coverage.
2. If no such coverage is available the next best place to look is at work. Check with your employer to see if you have any disability insurance provided through work.
3. If 1%26amp; 2 are feasible then you will need to ask the attorney on Monday for their advice since they will know what the options are in your state.
4. Don't listen to la42882 they are clueless. I spent 15 years working at insurance companies settling injury claims. I hate injury lawyers more than anybody, HOWEVER, there are cases where having one is a good thing. I think your case may be one since you still have to support and feed your family.
5. In most states, any coverage for lost wages will have to come from one of your policies. The insurance for the guy that hit you will not pay your med bills or lost wages on an ongoing basis. They will settle the claim with a ';lump sum'; payment in exchange for a release of all claims.
Goof Luck.
Depending upon the labor laws in your state, you may be eligible for some sort of compensation for your injuries while they hold your job for you.
Monday do all of the following:
Contact your local Red Cross office (they should have a 24 hour number) and ask for an appointment to arrange temporary help for your family. They can more than likely assist with food, money for your housing payment and in some cases help you find temporary transportation for your appointments.
Call your doctor and ask him if your condition will require him signing a waiver for you to get government assistance/health care coverage.
Contact your insurance company and see if they have any provisions for payments for your loss of income.
If you have a local church family, ask your minister or pastor for some assistance to help tide your family over during this difficult time. They may even have a food pantry in your church that can help with feeding your children.
Make sure on Monday to get a copy of the police department accident report and copies of your medical reports from both the ambulance company and the emergency room. Your attorney can do this if you sign the paperwork authorizing him/her to be your representative.
If photographs were taken, obtain copies of them.
I hope this helps.
Since you have contacted an attorney, ask him any questions you might have regarding what to do in your situation. By doing that, you gave up your right to ask here.
depending on the severity of the injury, and the type of insurance coverage you have, you may be able to get some assistance from your insurance company. if you have either pip or medical in your car policy, file claims for bills you recieve, and use the money to support yourself as best you can. the other insurance will not settle unless it's a single lump sum, part for auto liability, which you can handle yourself by either filing on your policy or the other party for property damage alone to the car. the personal injury is another matter and should be handled as a seperate claim altogether. if physical problems are severe, have the attorney handle just that and not the property damage. he will collect from 33 1/3 to 40% of the award plus expenses. he shpould be a good liability attorney, not just an attorney. the difference is that most liability attorneys can handsle the personal injury portion and get a larger award.
do not make the mistake of settling too soon since it will give you a lower award. if it has to go to court, it will take as long as five years so be prepared to wait.
if you have disability insurance at work, file on it immediately. it will provide some income. if you are paying for disability insurance for long term, it will be enough to keep you going for as long as you are disabled, and it is also non-ytaxable since you are paying for it. short term disability is usually paid for by the employer and is for about six months and provides about 0% of your salary. long term is from six months onward and is usually ggoing to provide full salary benefits as long as you are disabled. if your disability is permanent, and certified as such by a doctor, you can file for social security disability whoich will be paid to you monthly and will also give you an allowance for each child. but you cannot collect ssdi for a minimum of six months from the time of the disability.
hopoe this helps, and best wishes.
You have done the right thing by immediately contacting an attorney for assistance in dealing with the insurance companies.
As for loss of work, the doctors providing you treatment should be willing to provide written notice that you are unable to perform the functions of your job due to the car accident. This will help you recover money from the responsible insurance co. for your time off of work. Documentation is key here. After you return to work, it would be good for your employer to provide a breakdown of how much time you were off of work and your hourly rate so that the total amount of lost wages can be calculated.
Check with your employer and see if they have any short term disability that would replace part of your wages.
I'm not real big on lawsuits and lawyers. But call one first thing tomorrow morning. This sounds like one of those times that it would be best to seek legal counsel and to have a lawyer working in your best interests. An insurance company works in THEIR best interests (so pain/sufferning/out of work is not as important to them as you). Open up your phone book, and there's no doubt a lawyer that would take on your case.
Check into government assistance. People like you who don't work when you can't work are the ones who should take advantage of welfare.
depending on the laws in your state you may be able for some sort of compensation.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, however, this is one of those where you have to decide whether to do what you have to do to feed your kids or stay at home and worry about how you're gonna feed your kids.
If you're hiring an attorney, if they haven't already you told you how it works, it works like this....he'll settle your case when you're done treating. You incur all expenses associated with your medical treatment, or if he's shady, he'll tell the medical doctors to treat you on a lien. He can't pay your bills feed your kids or front you any money....no one will. How you feed your kids and pay your bills is something you have to deal with. Once your case settles...that's when you'll receive money and not a penny before hand.
If your doctors sign a disability form you may be able to recieve disability benefits from your state or your employer, so I would check with your HR department to see how those benefits work, assuming you qualify for them.Please Help Single Mom Needs Advice about Auto Accident?
Well, now that you have hired a lawyer any advice we give you is worthless. If this had happened to me I would have filed a claim with my personal med insurance and disability insurance and worked with the claims adjuster until he/she made me an offer (of course, now you will never, ever know what that would have been). Who knows? You may require surgery, theraphy, etc. This could possibly exhaust the other person's insurance limits -- and now your lawyer will get 40% of that. He/she/it will also drag this out for months (or years) trying to soak you for as much billing as possible. Make no mistake, lawyers work for themselves 100% of the time -- no exceptions. You are a cockroach to them, they do not care about you, they don't want to hear from you and they think everyone in the world is beneath them. Insurance companies are bound by law not to deal directly with you now that you are represented. I only pray that your scum lawyer hasn't promised you the moon.
PS - insurance companies are NOT afraid of lawyers.
Good luck.
I'll tell ya what. it will get worse be fore it gets better. Contact the local church and local temporary welfare/foodstamp place. Think about food centers. don't be afraid to ask family freinds for assistance. Make sure your hounding the guy with the F-250's insurance company 3 times a day writing down every bit of information. You should be on the phone every waking business hour trying to get food, money for bills, resolve your insurance claim and get disability started. I don't know how disability works, contact your unemployment office about that.
Why dont you ask your attorney... since you ran and got one right away? You do realize that with that attorney you have now delayed payment on your claim for likely atleast a year if not several? Attorneys dont care how long it takes before they settle- they just care about getting money. What are you going to do in the meantime? You know you dont get payments fromt he at fault party right? You get one final settlement when everything is said and done. How are you going to afford living expenses in the meantime?
Its saddens me when i see people run off to attorneys before they need to. You could be feeling fine in two weeks and settle the case with the insurance company and move on your life... now youve sentenced yourself for years to come with no settlement.
Again another ? that was asked without telling us what state you are in. If we know what state you are in we could provide better help. OK, I'm done complaining now. So let me suggest the following
1. If you have insurance check your policy to see if has any coverages that might provide for some lost wage coverage. Look for a Personal Injury Protection Coverage (PIP). In some states (Minnesota comes to mind) PIP coverage will pay partial wage loss from your own policy if a DR. disables you.It's not your decision to decide that you can't work under this type of coverage.
2. If no such coverage is available the next best place to look is at work. Check with your employer to see if you have any disability insurance provided through work.
3. If 1%26amp; 2 are feasible then you will need to ask the attorney on Monday for their advice since they will know what the options are in your state.
4. Don't listen to la42882 they are clueless. I spent 15 years working at insurance companies settling injury claims. I hate injury lawyers more than anybody, HOWEVER, there are cases where having one is a good thing. I think your case may be one since you still have to support and feed your family.
5. In most states, any coverage for lost wages will have to come from one of your policies. The insurance for the guy that hit you will not pay your med bills or lost wages on an ongoing basis. They will settle the claim with a ';lump sum'; payment in exchange for a release of all claims.
Goof Luck.
Depending upon the labor laws in your state, you may be eligible for some sort of compensation for your injuries while they hold your job for you.
Monday do all of the following:
Contact your local Red Cross office (they should have a 24 hour number) and ask for an appointment to arrange temporary help for your family. They can more than likely assist with food, money for your housing payment and in some cases help you find temporary transportation for your appointments.
Call your doctor and ask him if your condition will require him signing a waiver for you to get government assistance/health care coverage.
Contact your insurance company and see if they have any provisions for payments for your loss of income.
If you have a local church family, ask your minister or pastor for some assistance to help tide your family over during this difficult time. They may even have a food pantry in your church that can help with feeding your children.
Make sure on Monday to get a copy of the police department accident report and copies of your medical reports from both the ambulance company and the emergency room. Your attorney can do this if you sign the paperwork authorizing him/her to be your representative.
If photographs were taken, obtain copies of them.
I hope this helps.
Since you have contacted an attorney, ask him any questions you might have regarding what to do in your situation. By doing that, you gave up your right to ask here.
depending on the severity of the injury, and the type of insurance coverage you have, you may be able to get some assistance from your insurance company. if you have either pip or medical in your car policy, file claims for bills you recieve, and use the money to support yourself as best you can. the other insurance will not settle unless it's a single lump sum, part for auto liability, which you can handle yourself by either filing on your policy or the other party for property damage alone to the car. the personal injury is another matter and should be handled as a seperate claim altogether. if physical problems are severe, have the attorney handle just that and not the property damage. he will collect from 33 1/3 to 40% of the award plus expenses. he shpould be a good liability attorney, not just an attorney. the difference is that most liability attorneys can handsle the personal injury portion and get a larger award.
do not make the mistake of settling too soon since it will give you a lower award. if it has to go to court, it will take as long as five years so be prepared to wait.
if you have disability insurance at work, file on it immediately. it will provide some income. if you are paying for disability insurance for long term, it will be enough to keep you going for as long as you are disabled, and it is also non-ytaxable since you are paying for it. short term disability is usually paid for by the employer and is for about six months and provides about 0% of your salary. long term is from six months onward and is usually ggoing to provide full salary benefits as long as you are disabled. if your disability is permanent, and certified as such by a doctor, you can file for social security disability whoich will be paid to you monthly and will also give you an allowance for each child. but you cannot collect ssdi for a minimum of six months from the time of the disability.
hopoe this helps, and best wishes.
You have done the right thing by immediately contacting an attorney for assistance in dealing with the insurance companies.
As for loss of work, the doctors providing you treatment should be willing to provide written notice that you are unable to perform the functions of your job due to the car accident. This will help you recover money from the responsible insurance co. for your time off of work. Documentation is key here. After you return to work, it would be good for your employer to provide a breakdown of how much time you were off of work and your hourly rate so that the total amount of lost wages can be calculated.
Check with your employer and see if they have any short term disability that would replace part of your wages.
I'm not real big on lawsuits and lawyers. But call one first thing tomorrow morning. This sounds like one of those times that it would be best to seek legal counsel and to have a lawyer working in your best interests. An insurance company works in THEIR best interests (so pain/sufferning/out of work is not as important to them as you). Open up your phone book, and there's no doubt a lawyer that would take on your case.
Check into government assistance. People like you who don't work when you can't work are the ones who should take advantage of welfare.
depending on the laws in your state you may be able for some sort of compensation.
To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
Right now there are lots of things that i want to draw, but i couldn't even start a sketch because i'm not in mood, which i often encounters whenever i'm drawing(considered the worst of my worst enemies...). Can you pls give me some.. well, advice?, that can inspire/help me to bring back my mood? I know you often encountered such situations like this so i hope that you relate with me.
That's all and, tahnks in advance.. ^_^To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
Go to your local Museum of Fine Art and take your sketchbook.
You will almost certainly come away inspired, by what others have
done and will want to then do your own thing.To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
ohh myy godd. this happens to me so much, i would need some good advice too.... but i always sketch/paint wat im thinking/feeling at the moment... if im happy, some happy scene..etcc..
well good luck,
if you're not in the mood, that within itself is the mood(s) you use to draw about,
do you have the correct tools like hb~2b~4b type pencils,
and medium large size sketching paper ,
if using other like pen%26amp;ink or coloured pencils,
solutions may vary,
just start drawing whats in front of you, table wall, lights...etc. ,
go outside later , find something of interest, trees, cars etc. ,
or just plain doodle...
yep, this happens a lot to me as well :) ...what i usually do when i HAVE to draw sumthing, is that i go to art shows, gallaries, or just look on the internet for sum inspiration. if there is sumthing in particular i want/have to draw, then i do a little research on it. i look through images n study them. that usually helps me come up w/ sumthin, or it gets me in the mood to do sumthing as inspiring as what i had just seen.
i must say, music doesnt work for me until im actually doing the work, before, it just distracts me :(
good luck! :D
I always turn to music. It helps clear the mind.
Don't force it and don't think about drawing.
Drawing must come out your hearth and soul and that's something you can't force.
Go outside take a large walk in a park or nature and let all the good things coming to you.
you will see, it helps.
I know what your going through. What sparks your interests? How do you feel about something? Try drawing what you are feeling. I personally like to take mythology and re-work it how I personally see it as. Experiment with everything. For me, my muse can show up anywhere, from something on TV or even something someone just said. Have friends or family blurt out an object and then draw it. Have your own personal space to which to work from and don't do anything else from there, that helps out alot on the whole mood thing.
That's all and, tahnks in advance.. ^_^To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
Go to your local Museum of Fine Art and take your sketchbook.
You will almost certainly come away inspired, by what others have
done and will want to then do your own thing.To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
ohh myy godd. this happens to me so much, i would need some good advice too.... but i always sketch/paint wat im thinking/feeling at the moment... if im happy, some happy scene..etcc..
well good luck,
if you're not in the mood, that within itself is the mood(s) you use to draw about,
do you have the correct tools like hb~2b~4b type pencils,
and medium large size sketching paper ,
if using other like pen%26amp;ink or coloured pencils,
solutions may vary,
just start drawing whats in front of you, table wall, lights...etc. ,
go outside later , find something of interest, trees, cars etc. ,
or just plain doodle...
yep, this happens a lot to me as well :) ...what i usually do when i HAVE to draw sumthing, is that i go to art shows, gallaries, or just look on the internet for sum inspiration. if there is sumthing in particular i want/have to draw, then i do a little research on it. i look through images n study them. that usually helps me come up w/ sumthin, or it gets me in the mood to do sumthing as inspiring as what i had just seen.
i must say, music doesnt work for me until im actually doing the work, before, it just distracts me :(
good luck! :D
I always turn to music. It helps clear the mind.
Don't force it and don't think about drawing.
Drawing must come out your hearth and soul and that's something you can't force.
Go outside take a large walk in a park or nature and let all the good things coming to you.
you will see, it helps.
I know what your going through. What sparks your interests? How do you feel about something? Try drawing what you are feeling. I personally like to take mythology and re-work it how I personally see it as. Experiment with everything. For me, my muse can show up anywhere, from something on TV or even something someone just said. Have friends or family blurt out an object and then draw it. Have your own personal space to which to work from and don't do anything else from there, that helps out alot on the whole mood thing.
Advice needed about this company?
Hi, am just about to register with this company. http://freeshares.escape.to/ Has anyone had any dealings with them?. They appear honest enough and they don't appear to charge anything for the free shares. Any advice appreciated. Thanks in advance.Advice needed about this company?
Assuming you are in the U.S. check with the better business bureau, check with your state's consumer affairs division to see if they have been reported for wrongdoings, check with the Department of Revenue Services to see if they are licensed to do business and if they are, check with the state's attorney general's office to see if they have been charged with any crime. Buyer beware, nothing is free. The charge is hidden somewhere. Read the fine print. One more thing, this sounds like a time share program. If it is ask them for references and how long they have been in business. Good luckAdvice needed about this company?
Use your loaf.
My best advice, there is no free lunch. Somewhere, someday you will pay.
Is .to Tonga?
If that doesn't tell you to beware, perhaps this does
BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!this works
Assuming you are in the U.S. check with the better business bureau, check with your state's consumer affairs division to see if they have been reported for wrongdoings, check with the Department of Revenue Services to see if they are licensed to do business and if they are, check with the state's attorney general's office to see if they have been charged with any crime. Buyer beware, nothing is free. The charge is hidden somewhere. Read the fine print. One more thing, this sounds like a time share program. If it is ask them for references and how long they have been in business. Good luckAdvice needed about this company?
Use your loaf.
My best advice, there is no free lunch. Somewhere, someday you will pay.
Is .to Tonga?
If that doesn't tell you to beware, perhaps this does
BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Advice required about Cataract surgery?
My mom has Cataract. What's the Safest and Early recovery method available ? Is hospitalization required to remove Cataract ? Are Easy method like Laser or something available ?Advice required about Cataract surgery?
cataract surgery is among the most common and safest surgeries out there.
you do not need to be hospitalized.
in most cases only a local anesthesia is used to numb the eye and the person will be fully awake during the surgery. in some cases if the patient is extremely nervous IV sedation may be used and in a very small amount of patients general anesthesia is used.
the surgery itself takes about 15 minutes.
and you'll be in and out of the hospital/surgery center with in a couple hours.
a very small incision is made and the old cloudy lens is removed. and then a new artificial lens is put in.
there is literally NO pain during or after the surgery.
the recovery time is very short. usually the person will see much much better with in 24hrs after the eyes are no longer dilated by drops.
there are only a few restrictions and things you must do after the surgery and these ';rules'; only apply for about 2 weeks.
-you will have to sleep with an eye shield on for the first few days so you don't accidentally injur the eye while asleep.
-take all eye drops and other medications they prescibe you
-don't rub your eye
-don't lift more than 25 pounds
-if you go swimming don't fully put your head under water cuz the difference between the pressure above water as compared to below water could damage the eye
honestly thats about it. (my dr even told me i could go on a roller coaster the same day if i wanted to. i didn't get to an amusement park for a few weeks after the surgery though lol)
and cataract surgery is not something that has to be done immediately. your mom can take her time to decide when she wants to have it done. of course until she does get it done though her vision will only get worse.
here is a great link to learn all about cataracts and the surgery:
http://www.webmd.com/eye-health/cataract鈥?/a>Advice required about Cataract surgery?
There are no lasers involved in cataract surgery, but it is a simple process now.
It is done in a hospital, but as outpatient surgery , so she will be all done and back out within a couple of hours.
There is barely any recovery period, she will be just fine later the same day after the drowsy pill has worn off.
It's nothing to worry about these days, not like 15 years ago even.
cataract surgery is among the most common and safest surgeries out there.
you do not need to be hospitalized.
in most cases only a local anesthesia is used to numb the eye and the person will be fully awake during the surgery. in some cases if the patient is extremely nervous IV sedation may be used and in a very small amount of patients general anesthesia is used.
the surgery itself takes about 15 minutes.
and you'll be in and out of the hospital/surgery center with in a couple hours.
a very small incision is made and the old cloudy lens is removed. and then a new artificial lens is put in.
there is literally NO pain during or after the surgery.
the recovery time is very short. usually the person will see much much better with in 24hrs after the eyes are no longer dilated by drops.
there are only a few restrictions and things you must do after the surgery and these ';rules'; only apply for about 2 weeks.
-you will have to sleep with an eye shield on for the first few days so you don't accidentally injur the eye while asleep.
-take all eye drops and other medications they prescibe you
-don't rub your eye
-don't lift more than 25 pounds
-if you go swimming don't fully put your head under water cuz the difference between the pressure above water as compared to below water could damage the eye
honestly thats about it. (my dr even told me i could go on a roller coaster the same day if i wanted to. i didn't get to an amusement park for a few weeks after the surgery though lol)
and cataract surgery is not something that has to be done immediately. your mom can take her time to decide when she wants to have it done. of course until she does get it done though her vision will only get worse.
here is a great link to learn all about cataracts and the surgery:
http://www.webmd.com/eye-health/cataract鈥?/a>Advice required about Cataract surgery?
There are no lasers involved in cataract surgery, but it is a simple process now.
It is done in a hospital, but as outpatient surgery , so she will be all done and back out within a couple of hours.
There is barely any recovery period, she will be just fine later the same day after the drowsy pill has worn off.
It's nothing to worry about these days, not like 15 years ago even.
Need advice about piercing?
Hi,
I want to add some piercing on me but I cant make up my mind should I add one on my mouth or on my eyebrow and besides I want to get informed am I going to get some marks on my face in case if I want to remove it or am I not.
I need ur advice please.Need advice about piercing?
I have a pierced tongue. To me it wasn't bad getting it pierced, but it will be sore and swollen for a few days. Make sure that you get any piercings by a professional. If someone doesn't know what they are doing, they can hit a blood vessel in your tongue. When you do take the tongue ring out, it will leave a small mark on your tongue.Need advice about piercing?
I pierced my eyebrow and wore it for 3 years. As time wore on it slowly started to push out, but I took it out before it became a real issue. Honestly, I just got tired of sleeping on it. But that's the good thing about piercings, unlike tattoos you can ditch them when you're bored with it. No scaring for me, or at least my brows cover it. I think it's cooler for a guy than mouth piercings.
WHY?
if you get your eyebrow pierced and don't like it the holes are never gonnq close like even if you never put the ring back in
Well, oral piercings could cause damage to teeth if you don't have jewelry that's the correct length.
But, eyebrow piercings could reject (your body could push the jewelry out).
I have eyebrow piercing scars, and lip piercing scars, and I don't even notice the eyebrow scars anymore.. The lip scars, however, are still there after having no jewelry in for 3 years.
If you have any specific questions feel free to email me, I've had both piercings done.. 2-3 times each.
I want to add some piercing on me but I cant make up my mind should I add one on my mouth or on my eyebrow and besides I want to get informed am I going to get some marks on my face in case if I want to remove it or am I not.
I need ur advice please.Need advice about piercing?
I have a pierced tongue. To me it wasn't bad getting it pierced, but it will be sore and swollen for a few days. Make sure that you get any piercings by a professional. If someone doesn't know what they are doing, they can hit a blood vessel in your tongue. When you do take the tongue ring out, it will leave a small mark on your tongue.Need advice about piercing?
I pierced my eyebrow and wore it for 3 years. As time wore on it slowly started to push out, but I took it out before it became a real issue. Honestly, I just got tired of sleeping on it. But that's the good thing about piercings, unlike tattoos you can ditch them when you're bored with it. No scaring for me, or at least my brows cover it. I think it's cooler for a guy than mouth piercings.
WHY?
if you get your eyebrow pierced and don't like it the holes are never gonnq close like even if you never put the ring back in
Well, oral piercings could cause damage to teeth if you don't have jewelry that's the correct length.
But, eyebrow piercings could reject (your body could push the jewelry out).
I have eyebrow piercing scars, and lip piercing scars, and I don't even notice the eyebrow scars anymore.. The lip scars, however, are still there after having no jewelry in for 3 years.
If you have any specific questions feel free to email me, I've had both piercings done.. 2-3 times each.
Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
Am I manglik? How will that affect my education / marriage? Any remedies?
What is in store for me astrologically based on my place and date of birth?
I am most interested in knowing about difficulties foreseen in education, marriage and begetting children, as well as my health and health of relatives.
DOB: 9-May-1985
Time: 08:10pm
Place: Mumbai, Maharashtra, India.Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
So many questions. As you want to know the difficulties you will face, i will enumerate some which may happen from time to time as per the timing and dasha. If you are pursuing the field relating to law or the field directly related to public that will be better for you. There may arise difficulties to pursue your field not because of any opposition but because of your health. You may have stomach/intestine problems. If you are female may face hormonal imbalance/menstrual problems. Some may suggest that you are not manglik as Sat and Rahu aspect in Lagna and D-9 respectively but my experience shows that such charts do favour troubles in married life combining with other factors. 2-3 relations are to be broken before maturing the marriage proposal. After marriage also difficulties are there, more maturity will be required to put in. You may also face problem in right Fallopian tube which may give trouble in child bearing, so take on yoga and pranayama well in advance which will also help you to overcome other health problems.Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
yes you are a manglik with Mars in 7th house but itrs not necessry it will create problem in your matrriage.
Name: Fq
Sex: Female
Date of Birth: 9/5/1985
Time of Birth: 20:10:00
Place: Mumbai Latitude: 19:0:N Longitude: 72:48:E
Country: India Zone Time: 82:30:E
Personal Details
Lagan(Ascendent) Scorpio
Lagan Swami(Ascendent Lord) Mars
Rashi(Moon Sign) Sagittarius
Rashi Swami(Moon Sign Lord) Jupt
Nakshatra(Constellation) U. Asdha
Nakshatra Swami(Constellation Lord) Sun
Charan 1
Yoga Subha
Karan Gara
Janam Namakshar(Birth Name Character) BHE
Surya Rashi(Sun Sign) Taurus
Varana Brahmin
Vashya Chatuspad
Yoni Nakul
Gana Manushya
Nadi Antya
Varga Musaka
Planetary Positions
Planet Dir/Ret Speed Degrees Sign
Ascendant ---- ---- 25掳48'16'' Scorpio
Sun Dir 28掳59'38'' 25掳15'32'' Aries
Moon Dir 13掳52'19'' 29掳41'43'' Sagittarius
Mars Dir 20掳35'28'' 15掳29'27'' Taurus
Mercury Dir 9掳46'7'' 0掳1'54'' Aries
Jupiter Dir 2掳24'25'' 22掳14'22'' Capricornus
Venus Dir 14掳20'7'' 16掳5'25'' Pisces
Saturn Ret 2掳13'24'' 1掳38'28'' Scorpio
Rahu Ret 1掳35'15'' 24掳41'19'' Aries
Ketu Ret 1掳35'15'' 24掳41'19'' Libra
Uranus Ret 1掳1'55'' 23掳26'13'' Scorpio
Neptune Ret 0掳30'45'' 9掳39'30'' Sagittarius
Pluto Ret 0掳48'19'' 9掳16'0'' Libra
Ascendant Chart Moon Chart
Lagan Prediction
SCORPIO ASCENDANT
This is the eighth sign of the zodiac whose lord are mars. IV step of vishaka all the steps of anuradha and jyestha come under the purview of this sign. You are born in Scorpio ascendance. You are of medium height, wheatish complexion and with a broad fore head. You are vigorous, fat, robust, healthy, and majestic. You are religious; full of quest, interest is complex subject sand also knower of complex knowledge. You are fond of tourism you are of hard, rigid, stern and brave. You people are revengeful and do not target enmity so easily. Your attitude is sharp. Ordinarily you are sober by nature due to your magnetic personality people get attracted towards you the number of your friends is very large you also help your friends. You are opportunist and do boasting about your self.
You are imaginative type of person you make many plans but as soon as the work starts you loose interest and leave the work unaccomplished. You suffer losses due to believing other people prepositions at once. After your middle age you are tending to get inclined towards spiritualism. You are master of innovations and modernity. Your family life is average happy and harmonious. Even dissent existing between the couple you are successful in finding a way out of appeasement. Attitude of your off springs is just ordinarily satisfactory. You are successful in the field of academics. You are prone to become philosopher, professor, reader, writer, poet, dramatist or a singer. You are prone to make a permanent mart of popularity. You are prone to serve in the departments of espionage, military, and industrial sectors. Your interest in the field of active politics can give you prominence in this field also. Your attributed possible ailments can be of fever, headaches, blood pressure, throat and chest excessiveness of wind and cough injuries burns can also create worries for you.
born on thrus day, krishna paksha shasti,
uttarashada-1 vruchika lagna, dhanu rasi
mars in 7th , kalatra stana %26amp; in sukra house, ,
so kuja dosha effect , for some extent
moon/kuja in 6/8
sani in lagna
and in samasaptaka with kuja
hence they will play their role
better consult either in person or in proxy , a competent one nearer to, to have doubts cleared
What is in store for me astrologically based on my place and date of birth?
I am most interested in knowing about difficulties foreseen in education, marriage and begetting children, as well as my health and health of relatives.
DOB: 9-May-1985
Time: 08:10pm
Place: Mumbai, Maharashtra, India.Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
So many questions. As you want to know the difficulties you will face, i will enumerate some which may happen from time to time as per the timing and dasha. If you are pursuing the field relating to law or the field directly related to public that will be better for you. There may arise difficulties to pursue your field not because of any opposition but because of your health. You may have stomach/intestine problems. If you are female may face hormonal imbalance/menstrual problems. Some may suggest that you are not manglik as Sat and Rahu aspect in Lagna and D-9 respectively but my experience shows that such charts do favour troubles in married life combining with other factors. 2-3 relations are to be broken before maturing the marriage proposal. After marriage also difficulties are there, more maturity will be required to put in. You may also face problem in right Fallopian tube which may give trouble in child bearing, so take on yoga and pranayama well in advance which will also help you to overcome other health problems.Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
yes you are a manglik with Mars in 7th house but itrs not necessry it will create problem in your matrriage.
Name: Fq
Sex: Female
Date of Birth: 9/5/1985
Time of Birth: 20:10:00
Place: Mumbai Latitude: 19:0:N Longitude: 72:48:E
Country: India Zone Time: 82:30:E
Personal Details
Lagan(Ascendent) Scorpio
Lagan Swami(Ascendent Lord) Mars
Rashi(Moon Sign) Sagittarius
Rashi Swami(Moon Sign Lord) Jupt
Nakshatra(Constellation) U. Asdha
Nakshatra Swami(Constellation Lord) Sun
Charan 1
Yoga Subha
Karan Gara
Janam Namakshar(Birth Name Character) BHE
Surya Rashi(Sun Sign) Taurus
Varana Brahmin
Vashya Chatuspad
Yoni Nakul
Gana Manushya
Nadi Antya
Varga Musaka
Planetary Positions
Planet Dir/Ret Speed Degrees Sign
Ascendant ---- ---- 25掳48'16'' Scorpio
Sun Dir 28掳59'38'' 25掳15'32'' Aries
Moon Dir 13掳52'19'' 29掳41'43'' Sagittarius
Mars Dir 20掳35'28'' 15掳29'27'' Taurus
Mercury Dir 9掳46'7'' 0掳1'54'' Aries
Jupiter Dir 2掳24'25'' 22掳14'22'' Capricornus
Venus Dir 14掳20'7'' 16掳5'25'' Pisces
Saturn Ret 2掳13'24'' 1掳38'28'' Scorpio
Rahu Ret 1掳35'15'' 24掳41'19'' Aries
Ketu Ret 1掳35'15'' 24掳41'19'' Libra
Uranus Ret 1掳1'55'' 23掳26'13'' Scorpio
Neptune Ret 0掳30'45'' 9掳39'30'' Sagittarius
Pluto Ret 0掳48'19'' 9掳16'0'' Libra
Ascendant Chart Moon Chart
Lagan Prediction
SCORPIO ASCENDANT
This is the eighth sign of the zodiac whose lord are mars. IV step of vishaka all the steps of anuradha and jyestha come under the purview of this sign. You are born in Scorpio ascendance. You are of medium height, wheatish complexion and with a broad fore head. You are vigorous, fat, robust, healthy, and majestic. You are religious; full of quest, interest is complex subject sand also knower of complex knowledge. You are fond of tourism you are of hard, rigid, stern and brave. You people are revengeful and do not target enmity so easily. Your attitude is sharp. Ordinarily you are sober by nature due to your magnetic personality people get attracted towards you the number of your friends is very large you also help your friends. You are opportunist and do boasting about your self.
You are imaginative type of person you make many plans but as soon as the work starts you loose interest and leave the work unaccomplished. You suffer losses due to believing other people prepositions at once. After your middle age you are tending to get inclined towards spiritualism. You are master of innovations and modernity. Your family life is average happy and harmonious. Even dissent existing between the couple you are successful in finding a way out of appeasement. Attitude of your off springs is just ordinarily satisfactory. You are successful in the field of academics. You are prone to become philosopher, professor, reader, writer, poet, dramatist or a singer. You are prone to make a permanent mart of popularity. You are prone to serve in the departments of espionage, military, and industrial sectors. Your interest in the field of active politics can give you prominence in this field also. Your attributed possible ailments can be of fever, headaches, blood pressure, throat and chest excessiveness of wind and cough injuries burns can also create worries for you.
born on thrus day, krishna paksha shasti,
uttarashada-1 vruchika lagna, dhanu rasi
mars in 7th , kalatra stana %26amp; in sukra house, ,
so kuja dosha effect , for some extent
moon/kuja in 6/8
sani in lagna
and in samasaptaka with kuja
hence they will play their role
better consult either in person or in proxy , a competent one nearer to, to have doubts cleared
Need advice about baby fish?
Hi we have had a tropical fish tank now for a month about 2 weeks ago we brought a few fish this morning I have noticed 3 tiny baby fish, do I need to do anything special to keep these baby fish alive thanks for any adviceNeed advice about baby fish?
Fry from fish and how to care and raise them vary from species to species and by far, you don't really have a all in one care package. Sometimes the fry, (thats babies) need to be housed away from other fish as they become targets as food for other fish. Seperating them out to an isloation/nursery tank is in many cases a good thing. Also to consider, some cichilds are active tending parents and look over thier fry so not much is needed to be done there. It would help to give you accurate advice if we knew what species of fish that had the babies. Mollies for example are known to eat thier own fry...why I have no idea, but it does happen.
Before you go really far into care, consider long term housing here. My point being, you now know you have a breeding pair of something in there, and this most likely wont be the first time you find babies. Where are you going to put all your extra fish? If you have a giant tank then I am sure it will be awhile before you reach your maximum bio load, if not, what plans do you have to keep and raise the fry?Need advice about baby fish?
I had a special net to put in my tank, and when the pregnant fish looked ready to pop, I would put here in there until the babies were born and then take the mother out again and leave the babies there until they were about 3 weeks old. I had lots and lots that way and they were great.
make sure the fish grows to a good size if u want to put a bigger fish in there because a big fish would eat the little tiny fish
If its not practical for you to get another tank buy a fish breeder keep them in it for a few weeks until they get a little bigger and at that point buy the dense plant there a plant called cabomba or something similar and that works quite well. and hope for the best most of the fry have probably been eaten if you can only see three.
I would buy a breeding net. It protects the baby fish from other fish from eating them. You can buy them at Walmart or a pet store. Mine is a green net and clips on the fish tank.
Hey depends what other fish you have you could separate them for a while to let them get a bit bigger so they dont get eaten or if u have plenty of rocks that then can hide in I think your ok. Enjoy your new fishies!
Odds are very high the babies are from a live bearer such as a molly, platy or guppy. In this case the only things you will need to do is offer them places to hide from the adults (which will eat them) and feed them finely crushed flake food. Most pet stores carry breeder nets that hang in your tank and will offer shelter to the baby fish.
MM
Sounds like you have guppies, swords and / or mollies (all live breeders).
Put in a lot of dense plant material (real or otherwise) where they can hide from the bigger fish (parents will eat the babies). Alternately you can buy a ';fish breeder'; which is a small plastic box that hangs on the side of the tank, to allow circulation, but also protection.
id keep in a seperate tank incase they are eaten by the adults,but it depends on breed of fish
separate tank until larger, same as above - depending on species. read up on species on the net, loads of great sites
Fry from fish and how to care and raise them vary from species to species and by far, you don't really have a all in one care package. Sometimes the fry, (thats babies) need to be housed away from other fish as they become targets as food for other fish. Seperating them out to an isloation/nursery tank is in many cases a good thing. Also to consider, some cichilds are active tending parents and look over thier fry so not much is needed to be done there. It would help to give you accurate advice if we knew what species of fish that had the babies. Mollies for example are known to eat thier own fry...why I have no idea, but it does happen.
Before you go really far into care, consider long term housing here. My point being, you now know you have a breeding pair of something in there, and this most likely wont be the first time you find babies. Where are you going to put all your extra fish? If you have a giant tank then I am sure it will be awhile before you reach your maximum bio load, if not, what plans do you have to keep and raise the fry?Need advice about baby fish?
I had a special net to put in my tank, and when the pregnant fish looked ready to pop, I would put here in there until the babies were born and then take the mother out again and leave the babies there until they were about 3 weeks old. I had lots and lots that way and they were great.
make sure the fish grows to a good size if u want to put a bigger fish in there because a big fish would eat the little tiny fish
If its not practical for you to get another tank buy a fish breeder keep them in it for a few weeks until they get a little bigger and at that point buy the dense plant there a plant called cabomba or something similar and that works quite well. and hope for the best most of the fry have probably been eaten if you can only see three.
I would buy a breeding net. It protects the baby fish from other fish from eating them. You can buy them at Walmart or a pet store. Mine is a green net and clips on the fish tank.
Hey depends what other fish you have you could separate them for a while to let them get a bit bigger so they dont get eaten or if u have plenty of rocks that then can hide in I think your ok. Enjoy your new fishies!
Odds are very high the babies are from a live bearer such as a molly, platy or guppy. In this case the only things you will need to do is offer them places to hide from the adults (which will eat them) and feed them finely crushed flake food. Most pet stores carry breeder nets that hang in your tank and will offer shelter to the baby fish.
MM
Sounds like you have guppies, swords and / or mollies (all live breeders).
Put in a lot of dense plant material (real or otherwise) where they can hide from the bigger fish (parents will eat the babies). Alternately you can buy a ';fish breeder'; which is a small plastic box that hangs on the side of the tank, to allow circulation, but also protection.
id keep in a seperate tank incase they are eaten by the adults,but it depends on breed of fish
separate tank until larger, same as above - depending on species. read up on species on the net, loads of great sites
Any advice about a jealously problem? I NEED HELP!?
So I have a thing with this guy and he likes me, but I know for a fact I like him more than he likes me. Anyways he says I am beautiful and pretty ETC but I get extremely jealous when he hangs out with his girl friends because they are alot prettier than me. I am not ugly or anything but I definitely feel like they are better looking. And sometimes I wonder why he likes me and not them. Because he could easily get one of them. Is this common? Do alot of girls feel this way sometimes?Any advice about a jealously problem? I NEED HELP!?
Its because you're insecure. About yourself and your hold on him.
Yes, a lot of girls do and have felt this way and relationships. Its about gaining self-worth and trust that he likes you.
you need to realize that any guy should be lucky to have you. if you're questioning why he even chose you in the first place, maybe that energy will rub off on him and make him change his mind?
Own yourself. your life.
let him hang with other girls. you're not dating. keyword his friends';. you probably have guy friends or if u did would you be droolin over every single one? i doubt it. so think about it that way. and collect some confidence.
you are amazing. be you and he will realize even more why he likes you.Any advice about a jealously problem? I NEED HELP!?
OMG get over yourself!!! he like you because you are you! the other girls obviously dont do it for him. the is no need to be jealous and in fact that will push him towards the other girls. he obviously thinks that you are the nicest looking girl he knows or he would NOT be with u. if u continue to carry on with this he WILL leave u. it is OK for u to be jealous just keep it to yourself as ost men do NOT find it to be an attractive trait in a woman. men (as well as women) find the opposite sex attractive for differrent reasons. STOP BEING A JEALOUS GIRLFRIEND of he will leave.
Listen, as you grow older you'll become more aware that in the end beauty does not necessarily mean brightness and happiness. There are so many types of personalities out there and many of them just dont ';click';. Sometime you might meet the hottest guy on earth and you just wish he could be your boyfriend one day, but then you speak to him a little and then a little more and you realize you can't stand the way he perceives certain (important) things. Then, if you dont think it's worth changing your views because of him and he thinks the same you'll always be in a battle with each other, so a relationship is not possible...no matter how much you wanted it to be and no matter how good he looked in your eyes. The point, beauty is not all.
Its because you're insecure. About yourself and your hold on him.
Yes, a lot of girls do and have felt this way and relationships. Its about gaining self-worth and trust that he likes you.
you need to realize that any guy should be lucky to have you. if you're questioning why he even chose you in the first place, maybe that energy will rub off on him and make him change his mind?
Own yourself. your life.
let him hang with other girls. you're not dating. keyword his friends';. you probably have guy friends or if u did would you be droolin over every single one? i doubt it. so think about it that way. and collect some confidence.
you are amazing. be you and he will realize even more why he likes you.Any advice about a jealously problem? I NEED HELP!?
OMG get over yourself!!! he like you because you are you! the other girls obviously dont do it for him. the is no need to be jealous and in fact that will push him towards the other girls. he obviously thinks that you are the nicest looking girl he knows or he would NOT be with u. if u continue to carry on with this he WILL leave u. it is OK for u to be jealous just keep it to yourself as ost men do NOT find it to be an attractive trait in a woman. men (as well as women) find the opposite sex attractive for differrent reasons. STOP BEING A JEALOUS GIRLFRIEND of he will leave.
Listen, as you grow older you'll become more aware that in the end beauty does not necessarily mean brightness and happiness. There are so many types of personalities out there and many of them just dont ';click';. Sometime you might meet the hottest guy on earth and you just wish he could be your boyfriend one day, but then you speak to him a little and then a little more and you realize you can't stand the way he perceives certain (important) things. Then, if you dont think it's worth changing your views because of him and he thinks the same you'll always be in a battle with each other, so a relationship is not possible...no matter how much you wanted it to be and no matter how good he looked in your eyes. The point, beauty is not all.
Need advice about wisdom tooth infection.?
I have a wisdom tooth coming in and it is infected in the gum area. It hurts very bad but %26amp; has been infected since last Thursday. I tried to go to the dentist Friday but they were closed %26amp; won't open till Monday. I still have some penicillian from last year but unfortuantly it expired back in January of this year. So for the time being I've been tacking advil. Can the infection spread? Should I go ahead and have oral surgery? Any suggestions on what I should do. Please help thanks.Need advice about wisdom tooth infection.?
do not take left over antibiotics. go ahead with making an appt. with ur dentist they will prescribe antibiotics and after infection is cleared go ahead make an appt with oral surgeon to have the wisdom teeth/tooth removed.
Yes infection can spread if not treatedNeed advice about wisdom tooth infection.?
If you can't get to the dentist then go to a clinic. You need to be on an antibiotic. Yes infection can spread throughout your entire body and it can make you quite sick. Don't fool around with infection.mascara
do not take left over antibiotics. go ahead with making an appt. with ur dentist they will prescribe antibiotics and after infection is cleared go ahead make an appt with oral surgeon to have the wisdom teeth/tooth removed.
Yes infection can spread if not treatedNeed advice about wisdom tooth infection.?
If you can't get to the dentist then go to a clinic. You need to be on an antibiotic. Yes infection can spread throughout your entire body and it can make you quite sick. Don't fool around with infection.
I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me for it?
I have wanted to start a book before, but everytime I get about 5 chapters into the story I chicken out, and immeadiatly bail my project. I chicken out because I am somewhat paranoid, and feel that people are watching me write the book. It feels akward that people I know will read my book. And as crazy as this may sound...I dislike getting comments, be they good or bad. Let's stray from that for a bit.
About writing the book, are there any difficulties to get through while writing it?I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
Yes, Calm Down. You are having problems as you said, just take a deep breathe and think about your book and your book alone when write. Don't be worried that when someone you knows gets offended by it, besides if it does you shouldn't care. What if Tolkien chickened out or if Rowling said 'I'm scared that people won't like it.' Just let yourself go and write what you want, when you want, and where you want.
Good Luck! ; )I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
1.st peace of advice, never give up, stories come to you in bits and pieces and in no real order, its up to you to sort it out. be prepared also to reread it several times to iron out all the details.
The big problem is probably that you're looking around your room and seeing finished novels. They were only five chapters long at one time too! Just get through it, finish it, and then pick it apart. You don't get graded on a half finished test. And as for feeling awkward about friends reading your book, just think, you've finished a book - they haven't.
First of all, good for you! Second, the world if full of 30 page novels stuffed in drawers so you aren't alone. In fact, you actually may have gotten farther than the rest.
The reason you're getting discouraged at five chapters is you're probably passed all the exposition and introductions and therefore you're hitting the middle which frankly is the hardest part for most writers.
The solution to this is varied. A lot of writers don't do a lot of explicit planning and simply say to keep going on and don't stop even when it's hard. But, like painting, I believe writing is a learned art that maximizes talent. So, I think you might want to explore the structure of your story and find where the obstacle is that stops you from writing the middle.
I believe your problem can be resolved when you examine the meaning of your story and its structure then you will easily move past the beginning into the middle and then to the climax and conclusion.
While there's a lot to explore with your story's meaning and structure, your middle is where your character(s) should be engaging in progressive complications that hinder their objects of desires -- this is conflict which is the soul of your story. As your characters confront conflict, they are forced to make decisions. As they make decisions we learn about who they are because it is in those decisions that we display our soul.
But you need to know the general direction your character(s) are going and know what your story is about. This is all easier said than done.
Some questions you should ask that will help:
Do you know your ending? (It doesn't have to dictate your story, but it helps to know where you're going)
What is your story about? (Not necessarily what happens)
Do you have any major reversals in your story?
Did you structure your act design?
What and where's your inciting incident?
What does your main character desire?
What does your main character secretly desire (maybe even in conflict with the other desire -- this produces irony).
What blocks your main characters' desires?
What are the scene objectives?
Have you created a step-outline of your story?
There's a tutorial and articles which explores the story's structure that may be helpful at www.storyentertainment.com to help you answer those questions and more if you do not know.
I have wanted to start a book before, but everytime I get about 5 chapters into the story I chicken out, and immeadiatly bail my project. I chicken out because I am somewhat paranoid, and feel that people are watching me write the book. It feels akward that people I know will read my book. And as crazy as this may sound...I dislike getting comments, be they good or bad. Let's stray from that for a bit.
About writing the book, are there any difficulties to get through while writing it?I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
Yes, Calm Down. You are having problems as you said, just take a deep breathe and think about your book and your book alone when write. Don't be worried that when someone you knows gets offended by it, besides if it does you shouldn't care. What if Tolkien chickened out or if Rowling said 'I'm scared that people won't like it.' Just let yourself go and write what you want, when you want, and where you want.
Good Luck! ; )I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
1.st peace of advice, never give up, stories come to you in bits and pieces and in no real order, its up to you to sort it out. be prepared also to reread it several times to iron out all the details.
The big problem is probably that you're looking around your room and seeing finished novels. They were only five chapters long at one time too! Just get through it, finish it, and then pick it apart. You don't get graded on a half finished test. And as for feeling awkward about friends reading your book, just think, you've finished a book - they haven't.
First of all, good for you! Second, the world if full of 30 page novels stuffed in drawers so you aren't alone. In fact, you actually may have gotten farther than the rest.
The reason you're getting discouraged at five chapters is you're probably passed all the exposition and introductions and therefore you're hitting the middle which frankly is the hardest part for most writers.
The solution to this is varied. A lot of writers don't do a lot of explicit planning and simply say to keep going on and don't stop even when it's hard. But, like painting, I believe writing is a learned art that maximizes talent. So, I think you might want to explore the structure of your story and find where the obstacle is that stops you from writing the middle.
I believe your problem can be resolved when you examine the meaning of your story and its structure then you will easily move past the beginning into the middle and then to the climax and conclusion.
While there's a lot to explore with your story's meaning and structure, your middle is where your character(s) should be engaging in progressive complications that hinder their objects of desires -- this is conflict which is the soul of your story. As your characters confront conflict, they are forced to make decisions. As they make decisions we learn about who they are because it is in those decisions that we display our soul.
But you need to know the general direction your character(s) are going and know what your story is about. This is all easier said than done.
Some questions you should ask that will help:
Do you know your ending? (It doesn't have to dictate your story, but it helps to know where you're going)
What is your story about? (Not necessarily what happens)
Do you have any major reversals in your story?
Did you structure your act design?
What and where's your inciting incident?
What does your main character desire?
What does your main character secretly desire (maybe even in conflict with the other desire -- this produces irony).
What blocks your main characters' desires?
What are the scene objectives?
Have you created a step-outline of your story?
There's a tutorial and articles which explores the story's structure that may be helpful at www.storyentertainment.com to help you answer those questions and more if you do not know.
Need advice about wisdom tooth infection.?
I have a wisdom tooth coming in and it is infected in the gum area. It hurts very bad but %26amp; has been infected since last Thursday. I tried to go to the dentist Friday but they were closed %26amp; won't open till Monday. I still have some penicillian from last year but unfortuantly it expired back in January of this year. So for the time being I've been tacking advil. Can the infection spread? Should I go ahead and have oral surgery? Any suggestions on what I should do. Please help thanks.Need advice about wisdom tooth infection.?
do not take left over antibiotics. go ahead with making an appt. with ur dentist they will prescribe antibiotics and after infection is cleared go ahead make an appt with oral surgeon to have the wisdom teeth/tooth removed.
Yes infection can spread if not treatedNeed advice about wisdom tooth infection.?
If you can't get to the dentist then go to a clinic. You need to be on an antibiotic. Yes infection can spread throughout your entire body and it can make you quite sick. Don't fool around with infection.
do not take left over antibiotics. go ahead with making an appt. with ur dentist they will prescribe antibiotics and after infection is cleared go ahead make an appt with oral surgeon to have the wisdom teeth/tooth removed.
Yes infection can spread if not treatedNeed advice about wisdom tooth infection.?
If you can't get to the dentist then go to a clinic. You need to be on an antibiotic. Yes infection can spread throughout your entire body and it can make you quite sick. Don't fool around with infection.
I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me for it?
I have wanted to start a book before, but everytime I get about 5 chapters into the story I chicken out, and immeadiatly bail my project. I chicken out because I am somewhat paranoid, and feel that people are watching me write the book. It feels akward that people I know will read my book. And as crazy as this may sound...I dislike getting comments, be they good or bad. Let's stray from that for a bit.
About writing the book, are there any difficulties to get through while writing it?I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
Yes, Calm Down. You are having problems as you said, just take a deep breathe and think about your book and your book alone when write. Don't be worried that when someone you knows gets offended by it, besides if it does you shouldn't care. What if Tolkien chickened out or if Rowling said 'I'm scared that people won't like it.' Just let yourself go and write what you want, when you want, and where you want.
Good Luck! ; )I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
1.st peace of advice, never give up, stories come to you in bits and pieces and in no real order, its up to you to sort it out. be prepared also to reread it several times to iron out all the details.
The big problem is probably that you're looking around your room and seeing finished novels. They were only five chapters long at one time too! Just get through it, finish it, and then pick it apart. You don't get graded on a half finished test. And as for feeling awkward about friends reading your book, just think, you've finished a book - they haven't.
First of all, good for you! Second, the world if full of 30 page novels stuffed in drawers so you aren't alone. In fact, you actually may have gotten farther than the rest.
The reason you're getting discouraged at five chapters is you're probably passed all the exposition and introductions and therefore you're hitting the middle which frankly is the hardest part for most writers.
The solution to this is varied. A lot of writers don't do a lot of explicit planning and simply say to keep going on and don't stop even when it's hard. But, like painting, I believe writing is a learned art that maximizes talent. So, I think you might want to explore the structure of your story and find where the obstacle is that stops you from writing the middle.
I believe your problem can be resolved when you examine the meaning of your story and its structure then you will easily move past the beginning into the middle and then to the climax and conclusion.
While there's a lot to explore with your story's meaning and structure, your middle is where your character(s) should be engaging in progressive complications that hinder their objects of desires -- this is conflict which is the soul of your story. As your characters confront conflict, they are forced to make decisions. As they make decisions we learn about who they are because it is in those decisions that we display our soul.
But you need to know the general direction your character(s) are going and know what your story is about. This is all easier said than done.
Some questions you should ask that will help:
Do you know your ending? (It doesn't have to dictate your story, but it helps to know where you're going)
What is your story about? (Not necessarily what happens)
Do you have any major reversals in your story?
Did you structure your act design?
What and where's your inciting incident?
What does your main character desire?
What does your main character secretly desire (maybe even in conflict with the other desire -- this produces irony).
What blocks your main characters' desires?
What are the scene objectives?
Have you created a step-outline of your story?
There's a tutorial and articles which explores the story's structure that may be helpful at www.storyentertainment.com to help you answer those questions and more if you do not know.
I have wanted to start a book before, but everytime I get about 5 chapters into the story I chicken out, and immeadiatly bail my project. I chicken out because I am somewhat paranoid, and feel that people are watching me write the book. It feels akward that people I know will read my book. And as crazy as this may sound...I dislike getting comments, be they good or bad. Let's stray from that for a bit.
About writing the book, are there any difficulties to get through while writing it?I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
Yes, Calm Down. You are having problems as you said, just take a deep breathe and think about your book and your book alone when write. Don't be worried that when someone you knows gets offended by it, besides if it does you shouldn't care. What if Tolkien chickened out or if Rowling said 'I'm scared that people won't like it.' Just let yourself go and write what you want, when you want, and where you want.
Good Luck! ; )I am thinking about starting my first book and I was wondering if anyone has any advice to give me 4 it?
1.st peace of advice, never give up, stories come to you in bits and pieces and in no real order, its up to you to sort it out. be prepared also to reread it several times to iron out all the details.
The big problem is probably that you're looking around your room and seeing finished novels. They were only five chapters long at one time too! Just get through it, finish it, and then pick it apart. You don't get graded on a half finished test. And as for feeling awkward about friends reading your book, just think, you've finished a book - they haven't.
First of all, good for you! Second, the world if full of 30 page novels stuffed in drawers so you aren't alone. In fact, you actually may have gotten farther than the rest.
The reason you're getting discouraged at five chapters is you're probably passed all the exposition and introductions and therefore you're hitting the middle which frankly is the hardest part for most writers.
The solution to this is varied. A lot of writers don't do a lot of explicit planning and simply say to keep going on and don't stop even when it's hard. But, like painting, I believe writing is a learned art that maximizes talent. So, I think you might want to explore the structure of your story and find where the obstacle is that stops you from writing the middle.
I believe your problem can be resolved when you examine the meaning of your story and its structure then you will easily move past the beginning into the middle and then to the climax and conclusion.
While there's a lot to explore with your story's meaning and structure, your middle is where your character(s) should be engaging in progressive complications that hinder their objects of desires -- this is conflict which is the soul of your story. As your characters confront conflict, they are forced to make decisions. As they make decisions we learn about who they are because it is in those decisions that we display our soul.
But you need to know the general direction your character(s) are going and know what your story is about. This is all easier said than done.
Some questions you should ask that will help:
Do you know your ending? (It doesn't have to dictate your story, but it helps to know where you're going)
What is your story about? (Not necessarily what happens)
Do you have any major reversals in your story?
Did you structure your act design?
What and where's your inciting incident?
What does your main character desire?
What does your main character secretly desire (maybe even in conflict with the other desire -- this produces irony).
What blocks your main characters' desires?
What are the scene objectives?
Have you created a step-outline of your story?
There's a tutorial and articles which explores the story's structure that may be helpful at www.storyentertainment.com to help you answer those questions and more if you do not know.
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