26 and never had a boyfriend, some advice about my situation?

So here the low down. Im 26 never had a boyfriend. Really like this guy from church. I asked him out for coffee he said yes but then he's been away and so have I. We finally reconnected today. I asked him what he was up to this week and he said did u still wanna go out for coffee? I said Yes! He said how about we hook up friday for coffee. But like i said before I am so new at this so am i getting the signal right that he is interested? What is some good things for us to talk about over coffee? If things go well do i wait for him to ask me out or would i be stupid to ask him again? (He's really shy and new to this also) Any advice for me would be appreciated. Thanks in advance for your replys.26 and never had a boyfriend, some advice about my situation?
Sounds like he's interested...so go out and have fun. Don't be so nervous that you make him nervous. lol. Just have fun, laugh, talk, and enjoy each other's company. Everything will be fine. Trust yourself.26 and never had a boyfriend, some advice about my situation?
have you had male friends that you have done things with? cause 26 and no boyfriend, did you not go threw all the normal teenage experiences of dating? cause if your trying to start dating at 26...you have alot of catching up to you.....





and it seems like hes interested if he brought up the coffee again. and you could talk about anything you want....try to lean more towards relationship stuff. and if you like him, ask him out, definatly if hes shy. . all you can get is a no...and if it is no, then you can move on.
Congrats on making the first step! I would say talk about likes dislikes...things you enjoy doing, ask about things in his life...make sure you are letting him know you are listening to him, make sure conversation is equal 50 you/50 him. I wouldn't give your whole life story...towards the end if you feel comfortable and he seems comfortable, you can give him a small hug like a friend kinda hug and say, ';I had a great time, I hope we can get together again sometime, you have my number call me.'; Leave it at that. If he is interested he will call...or if he is really shy and you know he won't call and you are feeling bold you could end by saying, '; I had a great time with you, if you would like to go out again, call me and we can discuss what day works best.'; If he doesn't call he may not be ready for a relationship, you have to let him make a move, you can let him know what you want but then it is his move. Good luck! Hope this helps!
I personally would let the guy do the talking...and you could also talk about things you are interested in and like your current situation (where you go to school, work, about Paris Hilton?, about the news? )This is the get to know the guy part so to see if you guys have anything in common. I hope this will help you...





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Edit: I'm also 23 and never had a serious boyfriend so no, it's not Pathetic!! Three years is nothing if they say age is but a number!!!
judging from the context clues, I can tell that you want God involved with this part of your life. Trust him and you will be fine. Act naturally and think of a handful of topics to talk about. it will flow from there.
if he asked you for a coffee, the bigger chance is he's interested in you too!! baby steps....you go to church togerger, rite? talk about chruchy things first..then there could be movies, music, general stuff!!





advice : just be yourself...





hey, why am i so excited also??
Yes he's interested, but you have to calm down and not put such emphasis on this coffee date. It's a coffee date. Go meet, for coffee, don't make immediate plans afterwards so you can be free if you guys chose to hang out, be interactive. I.E - Don't allow for any alkward lulls in the conversation. Just talk about some common interests (church) and ask him questions and allow him to ask you questions. Get to know each other. Depending on how that goes, then you should get worried and panicky about dating. LOL. I'm kidding. But it's a fun and exciting experience, don't be afraid if it doesn't work out, because you'll have tried. And that's brave.