I need A LOT of advice about love & relationships???

I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend before. I don't feel ready to have a boyfriend because I am shy. I also live in a small town. I will probably not get a bf in high school because my high school is pretty small and I am shy. If I never get a bf in high school I will probably never get a bf in college because all of the guys will think I am a total freak b/c I have never had a relationship before. Do guys turn down girls because of that? I feel that I should jump in a relationship right now so I can get experience. Because, guys are not going to want to date a 18 year old girl that has never had a relationship before. IF you were in my position before please share your story and give me some advice!!! Thanks so much!I need A LOT of advice about love %26amp; relationships???
whoa! slow down there, girl...it is not that serious. When you do find a guy that wants to be with you he is probably going to be happy that there was nobody in your life before him. Just relax and stop worrying about boys. Have fun while you are still young and single because it won't last.I need A LOT of advice about love %26amp; relationships???
Don't look so far into the future....enjoy who you are now! Being shy is not necessarily a bad thing! In fact, a lot of guys like that! I was shy too and never had a bf before I got into high school, but quickly found out that a lot of guys like me! Don't worry about getting a boyfriend, just make as many friends as possible! You will find a boyfriend...small town or not, and in fact, sometimes thats better...if you've gone to school with the same guys forever, then they know you and you're shy, but they also know that you're a good person at heart and they will be interested before too long! It takes guys a little longer than girls to really get interested in a girl, so don't give up, but DO NOT just jump into a relationship just to get the experience!
Don't worry, you'll find love.
they won't care. They'll probably respect you more for your control.
if you look for love you never find it!!!! Just spend time having fun with your friends i mean your only 14 you've got plently of time...and then when you least expect it love wil find you!! as for the shy-ness tht will get better as time goes on...you'll become more confident-this was what it was like for me


grace x
Never rush into anything! I learned that the hard way with my first bf. All of my friends had boyfriends %26amp; I was extremelly jealous so I rush into a relationship and it didn't turn out so well.Let's just say we were broken up before our 3rd day going out.I'm only 13 so what do I know! GOOD LUCK!
';I feel that I should jump in a relationship right now so I can get experience. Because, guys are not going to want to date a 18 year old girl that has never had a relationship before';





Come on....?


How do you know that? It's only in your head. Not in boys head. You just too freak. If I know that I'm your first love, I'd be happy rather than to leave you b/c you haven't have boyfriend at 18 years.





Be positive thinking! You should know that boys like girls who has positive thinking, positive talk, positive achievement and positive atitude. Be that kind of girl, and trust me, many boys will want to have you as your GF in your college :)