Does anyone have any advice about my dream guy?

We are just having sex - no dates - plus I have A boyfriend, but I think I am falling for him. The guy is 10 years older than me and got out of a nasty divorce about 2 years ago. We talk and laugh together all the time. He is also my coworker and we stare and flirt with each other all the time but he tells me he doesn't want to rush into anything. Is he surpressing feelings or just using meDoes anyone have any advice about my dream guy?
I think it is what it is -A love affair. These usually don't work out as far as having a serious relationship. For one, you haven't spent time getting to know each other. Everything is just sex. Sex can mess a girls head up and make her not think clear -Especially if it's good. Also, you're cheating on your boyfriend and he knows that. I don't know about hime but I know if I was messing with a girl who has a boyfriend, there's no way I could trust her with my heart. You know the song -';If you cheated on him, you'll do it to me. You say that it's different but what the hell is different. If you cheated on him, you'll do it to me';. I think you should just keep it at a sexual level and not get your heart into him.Does anyone have any advice about my dream guy?
Come on, really? Do you have to even ask? He's using you BIG time.








First off, break up with your boyfriend! He doesn't deserve to be treated poorly like you are and then after that, have your head examined. Do you really think that this guy is really going to date you? It's been 2 years since his divorce, it's been way enough time for him to have gotten over it. Do yourself a favor and just either enjoy the sex buddiness or break it off, just don't expect more or you'll hurt yourself.
It is painfully obvious that this guy is just using you. If that weren't the case, he would have a serious issue with you having a boyfriend. Your relationship with him (not to mention your relationship with your boyfriend - poor guy!!) is doomed. Remember - what goes around, comes around...
Sorry to say..... he's just using you. To quote an overused phrase, ';why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free.'; The fact that you slept with him (when you already have a boyfriend) shows him that you're not girlfriend material. Plus, he just got out of a bad relationship and he's knows you're a cheater. Why would he want to jump into another doomed relationship? So sorry for the negative view, but it's the truth. Good luck.