Guys was my mom's advice about u right? If you're interested, will u do everything in your power to talk 2 us

or could shyness/insecurity really be factored in? If you truly have you're eye on a girl, will you approach us first?Guys was my mom's advice about u right? If you're interested, will u do everything in your power to talk 2 us
Shyness and insecurity can be factors, and so can other reasons. There are many different types of guys, and here are your four main types of guys you will run into.





The SHY guy - He is the one that has little or no friends, and usually spends his time alone in solitude or with the small network of friends he has. He will find it next to impossible to ask any female out at all, and is embarrassed easily.





The INSECURE guy - He can be shy too, but he may have many friends of both sexes or just a few, but his main problem comes from asking girls out. He may have been embarrassed one time or a few times by being put down when he asked a girl out. He may even feel that a girl is out of his league and finds it hard to approach her, because of it.





The HURT guy - This guy has many friends, and that is the way he likes it, because he feels safest that way. He used to have no problems asking girls out, but after being rejected many times or being burnt from many different relationships, he no longer feel safe asking for fear of being rejected again, or if he isn't rejected then, he gets so emotionally involved in the relationship only to get hurt in the end that he fears being burnt again and loses trust in all women.





The CONFIDENT guy 鈥?This guy either isn't deterrent by rejection, because he sees that there are plenty of fish in the sea, or hasn鈥檛 been really hurt and burnt enough to care yet. This is the guy that your mother is talking about. These guys can approach any woman and take rejection with a grain of salt. These guys also know that they are playing a numbers game. The more females you ask, the more of a chance one of them will say yes to them. Of course he may have to ask 20 鈥?100 before he gets a yes.





As for me, I am a Hurt Guy. I can approach may women, but I will not ask, because I have been hurt and burnt too many time to trust women anymore. I like my friends, and I have many of both sexes. If I were to ever get involved with a woman again, she would have to make the first move, and she would have to be able to knock down my self-defense walls that have built up over the many times I have been hurt an d burnt. In other words, she will have to be a very special woman.





I hope this helps you understand the four main groups of guys better, but there can be cross matches between the groups as well. Good Luck.Guys was my mom's advice about u right? If you're interested, will u do everything in your power to talk 2 us
A lot of guys don't approach women because they're worried she'll say no, and he might feel let down, and if she says yes, he may not know what to do from there. Every guy HAS the power to talk to women; they talk to cashiers, bank tellers, etc., but the problem is they can't seem to ACCESS the power. They may not realize that women are also human, and are not goddesses. They feel pressured to perform, and that's when anxiety kicks in. Personally, I always approach her first, and I don't care if she accepts or not. Talking to women is easy for me because, lo and behold, they're HUMAN to me.