I need some advice about anal sex?Please help!!!?

I have been having anal sex with my fiance for about 2 and a half years without a condom but we use lots of lube. Anyways i always worry that im going to get colon cancer or something bad is going to come out of it. It says not to do it if its painful and most of the time it is but i still do it to please him. ANY ADVICE????I need some advice about anal sex?Please help!!!?
girl you are alot braver than me my husband BEGS ME to let him in the back door and i shut it so tight ain't nothing going back there except an exit sign tatoo LOL i have ALOT of female friends that enjoy it and they have been fine they are experienced in this department and have reassured me that you won't get colon cancer and constipation is NOT a problem for them and as for the pain they say to use more lube that can actually numb you a little and for him to go slower well enjoy and good luck remember anal sex does not cause cancer and cures constipation take care p.s we have been married for 14 years and my friends have been together for about 7 yearsI need some advice about anal sex?Please help!!!?
ummm stop doing it to please him?





Guess what, if he loves you, he wouldn't want to hurt you. If he knew u were letting him hurt you, I don't think he'd be too happy about that. So stop that. Would you want to be hurting him and him not tell you???





If he is by chance ok w/ hurting you for his own pleasure, you've got more grevious things to worry about than cancer, imo.





edited to say: though your intentions are noble and good, if you really want to pleasure him, do it in a way that you enjoy, not one that hurts you, oral sex could be a good alternative, anal can be something that happens sporadically, b/c u state it hurts most of the time, so perhaps there's some of the time where it feels pleasurable, and then have it then, it'll be more special and its about a mutual love, not an inflatable infatuation.
1. Never do anything that doesn't please you both


2. Look on line for the answer to your question I haven't heard of the connection before with cancer


3. If you insist on continuing with anal sex go to Adamandeve.com and look for their lubes with a desensitizing spray to help you ease the pain
Just tell him that it is painful and think of other ways to make each other happy and get tested good luck
You won't get cancer from it, but if you don't like it, I highly recommend that you stop.
you could get an STD and there are some STD's that make you contract cancer. You won't have symptoms most of the time so you need to get tested, you and your fiance.
First of all, Do you like it or are you doing it to please him.