Thursday, August 19, 2010

I need some advice about my relationship please!?

me and my bf use to have sex like everyday, we been together for 3 years but lately its been like weekly, he is usually the one to start things i know he loves me, so i want to know why he aint trying as much and what i can do to get him to want me more like before im a very passionate person and need to feel loved i appreciate any help with this, thanks guys!I need some advice about my relationship please!?
as your relationship gets longer...sex can happen less and less...








after 4 years...my bf and i work hard to keep things going strong...





first off...YOU need to talk to him about this and your concerns...also...YOU can initiate...he will LOVE that.





its not that hes not into you anymore...its natural...he doesn't need to have sex with you to spend time with you anymore...its become more...





i would worry too much...you initiate more and talk to him so he knows how you feel...try new things and be creative...your going through a transition in your relationship...its typicalI need some advice about my relationship please!?
try to find out if he met another girl or something
you probably gave him AIDS. j/k





just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.
maybe he feels that you aren't liking it
that is what you call the honeymoon period ,you don,t need to have sex every day as long as when you are its good sex ! maybe try wearing some sexy underwear , watch some adult moves together or try some sex toys only if you are comfortable with this hope this can help !!!!
you guys are just getting more comfortable just being together


you dont have to be doing stuff all the time


its a good thing :)
because maybe he wants something new. and you should start something. and let him know that you like...well you know...more often.
play hard to get.
Well maybe it got a bit boring and routinly, personally id want it weekly rather than daily, the tension builds up more, you want it more, and its a special thing rather than regular and get boring kinda thing. Doing it daily makes it seem regular and less special like oh were hanging out i cant wait till the sex. Ease it up dont base your relationship on sex





Try these suggestions


- different positions


- be more creative


- use props ex handcuffs or whipped cream if you like that stuff


- try wearinga sexy outfit that shows more skin


- tease him more until he cant take it


- strip tease slowly to a sex song thats always the best and make sure


you tell him he cant touch you while your doing the tease


- role play


- do it in different places, instead of the bed, try in a car by a river or when its warm, in the grass in a private palce


- maybe in a hottub


- wear sexy panties





thats all i can think of atm.
You seem to needy for him. Sorry but maybe you need to do some undercover snooping.... He's either cheating or wanting to!!
mybe you just need to come right out and ask him whats the problem. and if that dont work find a new boy friend.
That's the way it goes, the longer two people are together the more love they lose it seems! You just have to find a way to make him want you more.
Uhm maybe he got tired of it, or he has other planss. You shouldn't become so clingy because that isn't good

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