Advice About Talking to new group of friend....10 Points?

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I have social anxiety But I think it's getting less and less





Ok I met someone in my class(Girl) and she introduced me to her friends but the problem is that when I am with her group of friend I stay quiet





I don't know what to say or how to act





What do you advice me to do?Advice About Talking to new group of friend....10 Points?
I'm not sure how many times you've had the opportunity to meet with her group of friends, but I am usually quiet when I'm in a new social situation. I kind of listen and get the ';feel'; of the situation before I start opening up. That's just me I guess. Some people aren't like that at all, but then sometimes those people who inject themselves into situations can be annoying characters.





Anyhow, if you've been with them a number of times, by now you are beginning to know a little about each of them, so you can begin talking by simply asking questions about their day and things that interest them. I guess what I'm saying is, be a good listener and then use what you hear to ask questions and talk to them.Advice About Talking to new group of friend....10 Points?
First of all, if you have nothing in common with these people and you don't like them (not necessarily dislike or hate, just don't like) you shouldn't be friends with them just because you feel you have to or because they are friends with the girl you met. If you do find the things you have in common and talk about it, like the teacher you all hate or the new cafe that just opened up, if they never come across the things that you find interesting, start up a conversation yourself.


If you have trouble talking in a group, try chatting up one of them and soon you will end up as part of the circle of friends yourself. G'luck!
Okay, the easiest way to get to know someone is to engage them in conversation. Don't give them a pop quiz just ask them about something that you think they might like.(from experience most girls like to talk about themselves) become friends IF you are thinking about a relationship make sure you take it in steps
you should just be yourself.. i know it's hard to do... but that's how i was with my friends.. and they were all a bunch of guys... how was i supose to act.. and when i finally did something they were all like she's cool... and yea.. i think thats what you should do.. like an example is when they talk about some and you seem interested then say something... i mean that's all it takes...


hope this helps...


%26lt;3 Meggies
just chim in when they start talking about some thing that you have an opinion on