Just make sure your using a condom, i know you said you'll be safe but i have to repeat it because i'm older and wiser,lol. It will be a little painful the first time at least mine was. And it may be a bit awkward as well. Just try not to be too nervous because tensing up makes it more painful, also don't expect some huge big magical moment. Everyones first time is usually a little less dramatic than that. My first time when it was all over i was left thinking, wow, that was not what i expected. Not that my first time sucked it just wasn't what i thought it would be. Also i didn't have an orgasm the first time i had sex and lots of girls don't so if you don't do not panic!! As you and your b/f get more comfy with sex and if you stay together and do it regularly it will get easier, less painful, and you will start to really enjoy it. Just make sure you are safe with condoms and b/c (birth control) and make sure you get tested for STD's and stuff regularly now that you are going to be officially sexually active, even if you think your b/f is only sleeping with you and all that once you become sexually active you need a checkup and STD screen at least once a year. Other than that enjoy yourself and just try to have fun. It will probably be an awkward experience your first time but it does get better. Good Luck!!Advice about first time?
Foreplay is important. Make sure you are well lubricated down there as if you are not, it will hurt. However, it will hurt for your first time anyways. With me, it was bearable and the pain stopped after a few minutes, but other girls can't even continue so it depends. I noticed a bit of blood on my underwear the day after and was a bit sore down there but everyone is different. Make sure that he has done other stuff to you to make that area more comfortable of letting things in. The most easiest and most comfortable position that you can do it missionary for your first time. that way he does all the work and you can just concentrate on your first time. It may get a little tirering, keeping you legs up and stuff but you can always try around. The best thing you can do, for your first time and for sex in general is to communicate. That way, you can let him know what is hurting or what feels good and vice versa. so many women get embarassed or shy to communicate during sex, but it's very important.
You may bleed you may not, it depends on what you have done. I didnt bleed my first time and i think its because i used tampons and played sports all the time, so broke 'my cherry' beforehand. Also, I really dont think you should have sex, you sound young, even relatively. I did and i regret it completely. I feel like its a huge mistake i made, i know thats not what you asked for but just throwing that in there =] oh and i dont think it will hurt, maybe slightly uncomfortable..
A. make sure your ready
B. make a romantic night of it trust me you'll remember it forever
C. It probabley will hurt if you want to hold off 4 awhile you can stretch yourself so it doesnt hurt as bad.
D. dont expect it to be wonderful the first time isnt usually and the less you expect it to be good the less let down youll have
E. dont worry it will get better
Glad to know you'll be protected darling. :)
Anyways, it will hurt, no one can answer how much because everyone has a different pain tolerance. You will probably bleed a little. Just bare with the pain for a bit, it will get better. The rest will come naturally.
my friend just had a baby boy and they were safe, just be careful :) it isnt as awesome as everyone makes it out to be, and not everyone is having sex.
u can still get prego if hes wearing a condom
it can brake
my friend did and now shes having a baby boy
if i was u i would only let him finger me
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