i really really like a guy that goes to my school and i have 3 of my classes with him.. but hes the kinda guy that every girl is all over and i dont think he really likes that and 2 of my really close friends likes him and hes sooo cute blue eyes really tall our school quarter back brown swoopy hair basketball player honors student. hes really sweet and he doesnt seem like a perv like ever other guy. and i reeeaaallly like him. what do i do?I need your advice about a guy.?
Trying to win the heart of a guy like this can turn into a heartbreaking experience. Sounds like this guy could probably have his pick of many admirers. So.....
Don't join his gang of giggly flirty female fans. Instead, try to get to know him in a more personal way. And since you have three classes with him, there's your opportunity. Don't miss any chance to smile at him, and always say ';HI!'; If you don't have assigned seating, try to sit by him. Ask him if he can help you understand a certain question on a homework assignment. At the end of class, say ';See ya tomorrow';. Simple things like that. He'll get used to your friendliness and see you as an individual who truly likes him; not as a member of his fan club.
And along the way, you'll figure out whether he wants a girlfriend who is just popular, like he is,or if he wants to be with someone who really cares about him as a whole package. You'll see whether he's truly as sweet as you see him now.
Remember, he may like all the attention and have no desire for a relationship of any kind. And don't feel bad if you become only casual friends. Time can change that. And besides, wouldn't it be great to have him as a friend, when all the other girls are still competing to be his girlfriend, and don't know him well enough to carry on a conversation with him? Think about that.
I wish you the best of luck and happiness.
Take good care of you.
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